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Re:Got a coming out story to tell?
Date: 2008/05/11 14:45 By: Bane Status:  
 
I always guessed I was a little different and after something happened in Primary School I've always pretty much known since then that I preferred guys, although at the time I don't think I totally understood the whole straight/gay thing, I dunno, this is quite a few years ago now

Although I only just came out last year, secondary school was hell, I thought if I told my so called 'friends' the truth they would just leave me and shun me like everyone else did in my year. Once I finally left that shit hole I was a mess, I had absolutly no self confience, I had slowly been run into the ground over 5 long years of bullying.

I went to college in the city near me, not the one in my town, so took this chance to totally start again, no one knew me so I could do it easily. I slowly began to work through my problems and made probably the first ever decent mate I ever had. Only trouble is that he one of the guys that likes to think they are a 'man's - man' if you know what I mean?

So yeah, took quite awhile till I could finally get the courage to tell him but even then that was over msn, he was quite shocked but like a true mate was cool with it, then I just left anybody know, I don't care no more nowadays.

During school you spend everyday worrying about how your viewed or what people are saying about you behind your back, its causes so much grief and worry its not worth it. I came to the conclusion that you only live once so fuck it, have some fucking fun along the way and fuck what everyone thinks. As long as I'm happy with myself then its all cool and so the last 3 years of my life have been the best so far

Still haven't a guy since coming out last year though =/
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