One of my partners threw me against a wall during an argument, and afterwards I swore I would never get back with them. But boom, two weeks later we were working through our problems and rekindling our relationship. The trust and security was gone, but over time a lot of it came back.
We had been together a long time before the incident, so it was comfortable and familiar to get back together. Also, it was just a one-time incident.
My opinion was, 'Just because they did a bad thing does not mean they are a bad person', so we did our best to work through the bad time. What does everyone else think? Have you had a similar experience? If physical abuse happens once, is it a deal breaker for you? What are your thoughts? Discuss.
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