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You thinking of/just come out? read this :)
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Date: 2008/02/15 08:17
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By: itsallme2003
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Thinking of coming out or have you just come out?
Did it go to plan? If yes, your awfully lucky congratulations, if no, read on.
So they always say coming out is supposed to be the hardest time in a guy/girls life, that it changes everything. Im not gonna sugar coat this for you, it can be a BITCH!
But this doesnt mean you shouldnt do it!
There are several reasons why some people are scared to come out, im gonna see if i can tackle these head on.
What if i lose all my friends? Ok honestly, you MIGHT lose some friends over coming out, but i figure those friends that ditch you for being who you are, were never your friends at all!! While you might lose these "friends" you'll make real friends as a result of this.
What if my parents hate me? Again, this is a possibility, BUT!!! they wont hate you forever, even the most set-in-stone parents dont hate you forever, they just need time to adjust. My parents were the most anti-gay people u could ever meet, and kicked me out of the house, but eventually they realised their love for me was stronger then a prejudice, and now were stronger then ever.
What if ir ruins my life? Truth is, it cant! coming out is the start of a life in which you can be yourself, no more reserves, no more hiding your feelings!! Its the best thing i ever done!
One more thing? Its an awful lot harder to think about doing it, then it is actually doing it!!
Good luck xxxx
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