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Re:Do You Wish You Weren't?
Date: 2007/12/24 07:15	By: bendorset	Status:

sharazisspecial wrote:
Personally I have never ever wanted to be straight. Even though I am not out and community and family is very anti it (Muslim community >.< damn that religion!). I still would never want to be straight because I think being gay is fine.

The problem is not mine. I'm fine and not hurting anyone. The problem is society. It is them that needs to shut up and accept me!

I can't imagine being straight though. Personally I think it would suck to be straight. Seems so boring and I can't identify with any of it. Also I can't understand the hate either. Being gay is obviously genetic and uncontrollable. From my own experience I never ever felt sexual feelings for females. So I don't see how it is a choice.

I agree. It is them who have the problem - it is who you are, it is not your fault, and it is not a fault. One should not let society make you feel like you cannot be yourself, and you shouldn't let people make you wish you were "mainstream". Fair enough, there are more straight people out there, but so what. I do not wish to be straight, in fact, the only thing I wish is that sexuality is not seen as anything that makes you a different person - because we are all people - like how being a woman or a man does not make you different to any other person because we are all human.

Granted, some people have a problem with it, and may try to make some people's life a bit awkward - but why let them do that? In my humble opinion, if someone can not accept you for who you are and still love you as a person, then they are not worth your time, or worth letting it bother you. All that matters is that you have someone to love and that you love them, whomever they are and whatever gender or sexuality they are.

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