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Date: 2008/03/20 07:24
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By: MarikKeyes
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Shit i dont even know.
I think it was Courtney.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/03/20 22:22
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By: BronzeLA
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Well, i came out to three guy friends that just thought i was joking around...Then finally one of them was like "For reals??" and i was like "Yeah..." Second person was my best friend, she was like "I still love you!" and i felt like saying "Nothing is wrong with me...b***h."  but i didn't. Third person, was a guy that gives me awesome advice and he was like "Cool, be confident in who you are." (i was having problems...) And thats it! Only two, three friends and my mom left to tell, the rest of the people i know will never hear the words "I am gay..." from my lips.
SADE
You're ruling the way that I move
And I breathe your air
You only can rescue me
This is my prayer
If you were mine
If you were mine
I wouldn't want to go to heaven
TearsXfearS
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/03/21 14:18
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By: matt28
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I came out to my sister first. We're really close so that closeness helped.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/03/23 23:05
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By: seriouslycant
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I decided to tell people i'm bi.. im actually gay.. but i want to keep the option open.. like kids.. i mean.. could adopt / egg donar.. but thats a bit weird.. even in my view.. and unfair on the kid..
i just casually drop into conversation in bi (: .. i havent told anyone im gay yet.. but this one aussie guy i knew already knew and he got me to add all his girl mates (: so they all know as well... lol
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/03/26 12:30
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By: mat_oxo
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ummmm my ex best mate. later that year i ended up kissing him, realised how much of a twat he was a told him to bugger off. he is currently in seclusion, doing what-not to himself.
anyways after that it was easier.
mathew james oxenham
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/03/27 15:59
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By: everything
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The first person i came out to proberly was my mom
how it went?
she thought i was joking even though i was crying.
she then said to me that im just going to a 'phase' where i think i am but im not.
She then told me to not tell any one and that i should think about it more 
occationaly she talks to me about having a family, having children and living my life.
she always asks who i go out with, wether its a friend or not, she asks whether its a girl or boy? and its mostly girls, she then askes if its my girl friend
so yeh not so well i guess.
i still havent came out yet.
but i have told a few friends, but i think they take it as a joke..
thats it.. this websites my next step XD
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/04/01 08:44
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By: 03whetsa
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My best mate. Good times.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/04/01 18:03
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By: austin_09
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The first person I ever came out to was my uncle. Mostly because he was pretty much the only other gay person I knew at the time. We are pretty close but he lives in Las Vegas so I didn't have a chance to tell him in person. I wrote him an email and he said he new all along! I was nice enough not to tell any relatives until I was ready. Now I think the only people that don't know in my imediate family are 2 of my brothers.. I have some cousins that know and one aunt for sure but I think a couple others may know..
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/04/03 14:52
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By: JoeB
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I told my best friend (Katie) over msn and she was erm shocked to say the least, I think she kinda fancied me but heh. Seeing her in real life after that was a bit awkward..
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/04/15 11:18
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By: JonNee
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First person i told was my best mate
First person who found out was my cousin (i left hints on my myspace page ) but he still thinks im bi (sneaking suspicion he told my family)
Destroying the World; One mind at a Time
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/04/15 16:16
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By: Spazztic waffle
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Best guy friend who I was pretending to date first, then best girl friend (only thing I've never told her is that I like her), and I'm trying to get the guts to tell my mom.
I've hinted at it before, and she said something along the lines of "Well, you know Zoe's parents (one of my other friends has two gay moms), these kinds of things never work out for same-sex marriage."
I didn't get it either. I had mentioned a few bi people, and asked her what she thought, and she brought up two lesbians who were happily married.
For the last time, I'm not gay, or straight. I'm bi.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/18 11:12
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By: CuriousCloud
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The first person I came out to was my brother. I walked in on him watching porn and I showed absolutely no interest until... well, yeah. The news didn't phase him much, and we still did all the stuff we used to do, so I was happy about that. About a month later my friends and the rest of my family found out.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/18 23:27
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By: Smallpirate
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I came out to a good friend of mine. We were sitting on a bench in the dark, and i'd often thought like 'maybe i should tell him' but I just jumped in and said I had something to tell him. Then he said "What? do you have testicular cancer? are you gay?" jokingly. i just said yes and he was like "no! thats not it! what is it really?!" and it was so surreal took me about half an hour to persuade him I wasn't joking.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/19 00:42
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By: samh004
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I can't recall the first person, it was probably about 10 years ago now, or more, but I do have a habit of coming out to my friends when I am drunk. Bad I know, but no bad reactions yet luckily.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/21 15:38
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By: joesighugh
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I came out to a friend first. She is one of my best friends, and she is lesbian, so, I hoped she would be able to help me, and she did so much.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/22 07:49
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By: dancerdude
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the first person i came out to was mybest friend, she was toatly shocked at first but she was understanding, i knew i could trust her because she has loads of friends like me, but she just didnt see it coming i guess, NEXT STOP THE PARENTS! 
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/23 10:53
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By: sinnedguy
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The first person i came out to was my best friend (a girl) during our summer holiday gap between year 10-11, she encouraged me to tell my then girlfriend and when i did....................well lets just say she didnt take it well and when i came back to school after the summer holidays my whole year knew and it was spreading to the other younger years i tried to hide and pretend but apparently i "Act" gay (how can you act gay i act the way i always have) and no one believed me so now i live in fear cos ive recieved death threats but my friends really helped me
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/23 20:22
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By: boypet
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I was sort of forced out of the closet. I send this email mentioning that I was gay and without thinking that it is a organization my mom is a part of I sended it anyway. She read that email in the morning and asked me if I was gay. I said I don't know and she implied that I was confused. Then after work my dad took me for a ride and asked me questions concerning homosexuality. I just came out to him and it was the most hardest thing I ever done in my life. Being that my family is Catholic I thought they would be hurt by the fact that I am gay. That was not even a issue.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/23 21:39
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By: Dycedarg
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Well the first people I told were my parents....and they sent me to a psychiatrist, who "cured me" (or so my parents think). BAD IDEA! So I don't count them as the first people I told.
The "FIRST" people I told were my best friends in University. They were SO supportive, and I love them all ^__^. I've told two other BEST friends since (who were also very supportive), so i'm out to 5 people now ^__^.
"You don't need a reason to help someone"
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2008/05/24 07:37
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By: Avatho
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Well, at first I told people I was bi, so excluding that the first person I told was my brother. He took the news of me being bi very well, so when I told him I was gay he said it didn't make that much of a difference to him 
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