I know for certain that without my best friend by my side, I seriously doubt I would have made it this far. With all the leaning shoulders, crazy car ride homes, and general friendly love. So would any of you not survive without your best bud? It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees ( Ibarurri 1895)
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/02/24 00:05
By: MooYak
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Yes.
Because I don't do "best buds". There are people that have made it much easier, but I'm fairly sure that I would still be here if by here you mean still alive. Obviously I might not be "here" as in right where I am now, but be that as it may. To be honest, I always wanted people that where close like that, but that's not the way life led me, so I find myself being more solitary and self-reliant than most people. "Where we have strong emotions, we're liable to fool ourselves." - Carl Sagan
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/02/24 00:16
By: Kanae
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MooYak wrote: Yes.
Because I don't do "best buds". There are people that have made it much easier, but I'm fairly sure that I would still be here if by here you mean still alive. Obviously I might not be "here" as in right where I am now, but be that as it may. To be honest, I always wanted people that where close like that, but that's not the way life led me, so I find myself being more solitary and self-reliant than most people.
Concur, sadly enough.
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/02/24 02:52
By: BravoLima
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Being here, as in where I am now. Well, it's quite plausible if I chose to cut my hair I wouldn't be where I am right now, so yeah, I'd be somewhere else.
My best friend moved away along time ago. I've had one or two good friends since then, but no, I don't think they've really 'changed' anything about me, or led me here, but they certainly have encouraged certain behaviours and such.
I would survive yes, in fact Christmas would be made easier You should always respect one's religious beliefs, however imaginary friends, delusional behaviour, a belief in a two thousand year old folk-lore should be treated by a professional.
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/02/24 15:07
By: GNR7600
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Why would christmas be alot easier if you did still have a best friend? If I may ask. It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees ( Ibarurri 1895)
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/02/25 01:55
By: BravoLima
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No, you misread. It reads Christmas would be easier without the best friend. You should always respect one's religious beliefs, however imaginary friends, delusional behaviour, a belief in a two thousand year old folk-lore should be treated by a professional.
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/02/26 21:41
By: C_Dude
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I'd be different, sure. Probably significantly weaker, with less self-esteem and solidity.
Physically I'd probably still be here though.
I mean, hadn't I met them, I could've ended up better, or worse, who knows. It's just kind of a reflex thing for me to think that yeah, I probably would've ended up worse since best mates are highly valued sources of joy (and many others) in our lives, but really, you never know. You would've just met other people, made good friends with those people, and have them as best mates instead...
So I guess it'd be different... Hard to say if it would've been better or worse, but certainly different. But in any case yeah I love me best mates, they really have had a great impact on who I am now, and I wouldn't go and replace that with much anything else. "Keep it simple buds." --Carlooo! ツ
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/03/19 13:17
By: Tinsley
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My best friend, my first and only real lover. I wouldn't be any where near where I am today without him. I was going through a rough time when I met him, I needed him.
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/03/20 12:22
By: Chrisfx
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I think I would survive. However without him, things would be dreary and boring.
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/03/27 10:07
By: SexSlavesUnite
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To be perfectly honest - I don't think that I would be here without my friends who have stuck by me when my parents split up, when I discovered my sexuality and when I came out at school and got bullied.
They have helped me much more than they will ever know.
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/04/30 20:05
By: sxcboy22
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i dont think i would be here because i love my besties they have been here 4 me alot lately.helping me 2 deal with stuff i i lost them i would really be lost!!!!
i really do love them
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Re:Would You Still Be Here?
Date: 2008/05/02 03:30
By: chatzi473
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i would not be here. There was a time where i almost ended it all but it was my best buds who stopped me. If it was not for them i would not of been here today.
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