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A little advice needed...
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Date: 2006/06/25 16:24
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By: Angelenore
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Usually I hate asking for advice... well... I always do but that's besides the point, Ok so there's this really nice guy I know, who's gay, but he thinks I'm straight... So I've been trying to find the courage to tell him, because I'd quite like to be with him... but I just cant do it... any advice?
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Re:A little advice needed...
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Date: 2006/06/25 16:35
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By: JJ MCR
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Well firstly, are you really straight acting or not? He might actually know you're gay and you just dont know he knows. lol.
Also, do you know if he likes you? Because its all very well and good you saying you want to be with him, but he might not want to be with you. Dont mean to sound harsh or nasty there, im just saying, dont get your hopes up, if you arent sure.
Anyway, if you can trust him to keep it quiet i think you should tell him, and seeing as he is gay, he knows what its like so he will understand, most probably. Just ask yourself, do you trust him to keep it quiet? If you do, go ahead and tell him. And you can do it man, you will try and try and fail a few times, but then you will finally pluck up the courage to tell him one time. Trust me, its happened to me too, well not exactly the same thing, but something similar   
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Re:A little advice needed...
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Date: 2006/06/25 17:13
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By: Angelenore
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Thanks, I see what you mean, I hadn't thought of that... I don't really think much. I'm pretty sure he's gay, it'd be pretty wierd to come out if you weren't
I know he's looking for a guy..
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Re:A little advice needed...
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Date: 2006/06/25 21:37
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By: Trulymauri
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well if you know u just need to find a little courage. what i always do when i'm nerves or afriad, and this is gonna sound really cheese and possibly phycotic, i talked to my teddy asparugus, he's a bunny. AND NO HE DOESN'T ANSWER BACK!! it helps me clear out my head, make a plan, and get out the fustration. Just some advice.........
The proud to be origanaly me, Mauri C!
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Re:A little advice needed...
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Date: 2006/06/25 21:54
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By: kreamy
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Trulymauri wrote:
well if you know u just need to find a little courage. what i always do when i'm nerves or afriad, and this is gonna sound really cheese and possibly phycotic, i talked to my teddy asparugus, he's a bunny. AND NO HE DOESN'T ANSWER BACK!! it helps me clear out my head, make a plan, and get out the fustration. Just some advice.........
That's not as psychotic as you'd think. It's a very good charisma-builder and is much more useful than you give it credit for.
I don't really have a teddy, but I do a lot of mirror conversing 
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Re:A little advice needed...
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Date: 2006/06/26 03:16
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By: xtc
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Just tell him. If you know he's gay the worst response your likely to get is a flattered no.
Pics of me (note for mods, this is the clean version now): http://www.geocities.com/bulletsr4brains/clean.html
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