Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/10/31 14:27
By: staticxguy
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Idk... Technically it doesnt matter what the gap is. Personally, tho, I wouldnt date anyone older than me or anyone more than 2 years younger. (Its not so much a moral thing... i mean, im gay, and to a christian thats as immoral as it gets, but im just not attracted to ppl that are too much younger than me. I mean, there are a couple of cute freshmen in my school, but nothing special.) "It feels like the first time that we've fallen behind and we faltered too far down no one could save us It feels like the first time and we're standing above them and no one can touch us the worst is over" -Finger Eleven (First Time)
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/11/22 03:06
By: BravoLima
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Pedophiles are perfect scapegoats for the 'holier-than-thou' that hate or want to otherwise stem homosexuality without admitting it as it would be the political equivalent to being kicked in the balls by a kangaroo.
The question of age gap is eventually futile. It's like asking, 'Should people with high IQs be able to have sexual relationships with people with low IQs?'
All that matters is what the individual wants. Saying that a 16yo is compatible with a 13yo, yet a 18yo is not is just silly; plus it's hugely disempowering to youths, who are the only ones that really can make the decision at the end of the day, no matter how much governmental/parental forces try to oppose the decision. You should always respect one's religious beliefs, however imaginary friends, delusional behaviour, a belief in a two thousand year old folk-lore should be treated by a professional.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/12/07 10:53
By: Vision
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It's really all about both maturity and intelligence. Being 13, I know when I say that there a vast variety in these two categories with every age group. Hell, I've noticed that I'm more mature than many college students. if a person knows about teh risks, they should be able to be with whomever they want. (However I do agree that being with an old man usually means trouble) My limit would be a 15 year gap. Something witty goes here.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/12/07 16:09
By: Zacrisfal
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I can't see any problems with age gaps in relationships. Even though it may sound cheesy love has no boundaries. My aunt is 50 and her girlfirend is about 24, and theres nothing wrong with it. They love and care for each other, but it doesn't help that my aunt has a 22 year old daughter which must make it akward for her.
And one of my friends, her dad is about 40 and his boyfirend is somewhere near 65, and it doesn't change anything in their relationship.
As long as two people love each other, age wont matter at all...
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/12/17 07:16
By: Inthedetails
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i think that as long as its consenting and both parties are over 16 then go for it!!! i know all the stuff about older guys preying on younger guys, but well i have a really strange older guy fetish so ya know they can all give me a ring lol
inthedetails xx
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/12/21 02:15
By: SuPaStAr
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Personally Physical age doesn't really count for much in my book, iv dated guys alot older than me. Emotional and Mental age is completely different though, im mature for my age so i prefer guys same age and above to about 26/27, im 16, 17 in april. I suppose it's personal preferance. I wouldn't ever date someone more than 6 Months younger, regardless of how mature they are. www.thegyc.com/supastar
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
Date: 2007/12/29 16:59
By: nemoomennemo
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i think once you become 20, anyone above it is fair game
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/12/30 22:00
By: kevb
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I believe that most gay poeple would argue any day for free love, after all isntt accepting gays accepting free love? I am a little less that 2 years older than my boyfriend, and I really couldnt be happier with who we are as a couple.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
Date: 2007/12/31 02:59
By: shadowfierce
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i really couldnt care less about the age gap. i found older boys are more mature and cool xDDD hey, i once fell in love with a teacher (10 yrs older than me) and i sufferend from unrequited love up to the point i just had to give him up -.-
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/12/31 23:30
By: austin_man
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Kevb is my boyfriend and we are as happy as can be, age is just a number that people read into to much, we should be able to be with some who likes us for us
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2008/01/01 08:19
By: JayG
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I think that like half the people on here that age is just a number. Agreed. You have to be careful and half the time quite secretive?? but if you both love each other age should not come between it
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2008/01/03 08:51
By: SnuggleMonster
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I think that if you truly love someone and your motives are pure then age doesn't really matter. At the same time though seems like there's a lot of older people out there that jus wanna perv on someone young and that seems really creepy.
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I think that like half the people on here that age is just a number. Agreed. You have to be careful and half the time quite secretive?? but if you both love each other age should not come between it 
