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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/23 21:31
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By: Angelenore
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My best friend. mainly just to shut her up. Then my two other best friends... then a couple of gay friends. It stopped there.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/24 08:31
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By: racket
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A trusted friend. I told him and it was like, yeah...he was cool about it.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/25 11:26
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By: bababoo
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I came out to a friend in maths clas and she went "REALLY?!" extremely loud it was ver embarrassing having the whole class stare at me expecting me to share the news
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/25 11:45
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By: kreamy
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Matt87 wrote: The first person I came out to was my best friend Monica. She kind of dragged it out of me, back in 2004. It was a week before Valentine's and we were talking about our plans. She wanted to set me up with some girl so I had to tell her the truth. her boyfriend was there too. They both took it great, now the whole group I hang out with knows (all girls, minus the aforementioned boyfriend).
The first "straight" guy I came out to after that would prove to be my first long term relationship which ended back in December. I was sure I was going to crap myself. He was Arab & Muslim and I was sure I'd get told off... I was wrong, to say the least. 
~ Matt
The way you rave about him, it evades me why your relationship ended.
Anyhow, what a wonderfully blunt generalisation; a comment though, if he's sleeping with guys, he's not really muslim!
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/26 00:03
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By: eversweet
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^^ I thought different branches were more lenient than others. Like in Indonesia everyone believes in ghosts, but then believing in ghosts is against Islamic beliefs isn't it? ~Megan~
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/26 00:21
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By: Matt87
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kreamy wrote: Matt87 wrote: The first person I came out to was my best friend Monica. She kind of dragged it out of me, back in 2004. It was a week before Valentine's and we were talking about our plans. She wanted to set me up with some girl so I had to tell her the truth. her boyfriend was there too. They both took it great, now the whole group I hang out with knows (all girls, minus the aforementioned boyfriend).
The first "straight" guy I came out to after that would prove to be my first long term relationship which ended back in December. I was sure I was going to crap myself. He was Arab & Muslim and I was sure I'd get told off... I was wrong, to say the least. 
~ Matt
The way you rave about him, it evades me why your relationship ended.
Anyhow, what a wonderfully blunt generalisation; a comment though, if he's sleeping with guys, he's not really muslim!
As to why it ended, he couldn't bring himself to "stay gay" and went back to women. I found this out only after he cheated on me with one.
~ Matt
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/27 18:13
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By: Etheral
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The first person I came out to was my friend who is a girl. she is straight but she has a gay brother, and she could already tell
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/28 02:38
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By: fantacan
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I would definately advise coming out to a friend first. I did and they gave me all the courage and advice I needed to come out to my parents which i deffo think was harder.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/29 11:34
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By: Love_Kitten
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Mi hermana menor. (My lil sis) She freaked out. Now she's on here for tons of straight-person alliance/support stuff ^_^
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/04 05:08
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By: xo_jtowncheer2010_xo
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well it's complicated. i told my mom I had a crush on a girl but that isn't technically coming out to her so i guess it would be to tons of my friends. but i told my mom i had a girlfriend last year and she wuz totally fine w/ it. thats because she is a lesbian tho.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/08 09:04
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By: tasha9899
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I came out to a friend first. It was to one of my good friends. I told her right after she came out to me
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/09 06:23
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By: ktword
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I came out to a couple friends at first, who were all really cool with it which was nice and kind of paved the way for me to come out to my mom. It was cute... my mom said she already knew and i asked her how and she said she could just tell which shocked me.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/13 18:22
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By: Canada_Boy
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I first came out to three friends. The bad part was that one of them ignores and hates me now. It was horrible! At least the other 15 I have told since then has been real good about it!
It was in a hotel room!
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/20 20:18
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By: Jaggy
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The first person I came out to I did not know at all, it was eight grade he was a guy in my class and he asked, I told him the truth. I felt great, though I am a bit happy that we go to different high schools. In high school, I came out to 2 peers and two teachers. I'm guessing the teachers have told the other teachers. KING JAMES THE GREAT
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/25 10:01
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By: Shy Lad
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Mine was my best friend about three weeks ago! was when i was drunk which i kind of regretted but i still think i would be in the closet if i didnt!
whey to being gay!
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/26 02:27
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By: Benziller
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The first person I came out to was my best friend who is a girl. We weren't talking because I wanted to tell her and couldn't and she thought it was something she did...so I finally had to tell her. This was all last night by the way But anyway, she was really understanding and she said she kind of a knew already lol
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/26 19:54
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By: NirvanasSnow
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I first came out to my sister, because shes bi too, and she took it pretty well. After that I told my mom, who buried her head in her hands and 'oh-my-god'-ed for the rest of the day. A few hours later I told my best friend...I think hes the one who took it best of all, and we're closer than ever. ~NirvanasSnow
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/26 23:29
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By: annabel
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I came out as gay to my parents first, of all people! I didn't think they'd be the first I'd tell but something came over me and I took about an hour of freaking out and building myself up and then I said.. ok there's something I want to say.. and I couldn't say it until my dad said (as a joke I think) you're gay... I didn't deny it. They're fine about it, they were great. This was all only an hour ago... I feel like i'm in shock actually...
and breathe

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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/28 23:55
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By: puzzled_teen710
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I came out to my gal pal Andi. But I was desperate. I luv Michael Rosenbaum and TOm Welling!!!!!!!!!
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/06/29 22:43
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By: goul56
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I think the first person,well people was my close guy friends. We were all talking about our dark secrets and at first i didn't want to say a single word cause i thought they would freak out and all of that. I expected a different respone from the ones i got. They turned out to be so understanding who knew lol.
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