Hi im 14 andj just wonderd if anyguys here came out quite a young age ?
I not told my parents yet and may jsut wait to im 16 currently i have a BF and as having a guy sleep over is much easyier to do when a girl sleeps over lol they dont suspect anythign i dont think. Just wanted to know wot u guys think should i jsut wait to im legally aged or jsut out it. im realyl bi sexuell but i think much mroe gay.
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Re:What age do u come out ?
Date: 2006/05/25 17:30
By: squidged
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I didn't come out til I was 17, but thats because I wasn't sure if I was gay. All I can suggest to you is that you come out when you are ready to. Whether that be now or in two years time, it's your decision.
Post edited by: eversweet, at: 2006/07/17 16:28 Life is like a sewer: What you get out of it, depends on what you put into it
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Re:wot age do u come out ?
Date: 2006/05/27 04:16
By: theoneandonly
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I don't think there is a set "right" time to come out. You just have to plat it by ear and wait till the time is right. When you're ready to come out, you'll know it's what you want. Take your time, that's my advice.
Derrick Derrick!
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Re:wot age do u come out ?
Date: 2006/05/28 02:36
By: fantacan
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It really varies. I was 15 when i came out to my parents. You will know when it is right yourself. Good luck no matter when you do.
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Re:wot age do u come out ?
Date: 2006/06/01 13:30
By: itsy_bitsy
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I personally waited til i had some experience that confirmed wat i'd thought for years. I was a bit worried wen i first accepted my feelings at 14 i was just wantin to experiment and didn't wanna go thru the trouble of comin out only to have to later say i was wrong.
I think if not comin out will hold u back and ur sure, u should do it. If not, wait a while.
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Re:wot age do u come out ?
Date: 2006/06/01 23:31
By: tito24
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Im 14 and started coming out to my friends last october, i was fully yanked out of the closet by someone who i had though was my friend in february, but my mum has known that im gay for over a year now. <-->People think that I've stopped lying... I've just gotten better at it.<-->
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Re:What age do you come out ?
Date: 2006/06/20 20:46
By: Jaggy
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I figured it out at 13, a girl in my class had a wonderful gaydar, I'm happy I figured it out before I graduated middle school, I wouldn't want to curious in highschool, especially in my community. KING JAMES THE GREAT
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Re:What age do you come out ?
Date: 2006/06/20 21:21
By: dantabulous
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hey i came out last year when i was 14, but knew for ages before but live in a big gay bashing place so surprised i came out wen i did
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Re:What age do you come out ?
Date: 2006/06/25 10:10
By: Shy Lad
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I came out three weeks ago making me 23! i know its really late but i really wasnt sure if i was gay or not and didnt want to go to all the bother of telling people if it turned out i was bi or something! well i finaly grew a pair and done it! kinda wished i had come out sooner though! i missed being gay at uni which would have been fun!
nevermind! wouldnt change me for the world lol :-p
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Re:wot age do u come out ?
Date: 2006/06/26 02:29
By: Benziller
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Well I'm 14 (almost 15) and I came out to my best friend last night. But like it was said before, I don't think there is any set time to come out..it's when the time feels right.
P.S. I've known I was gay for about 2 years..so I've had time to think about it
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Re:wot age do u come out ?
Date: 2006/07/02 01:51
By: M*A*T*T
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I'm 16 now and i've known i was gay for as long as i can remember. I came out to all my friends at 13 (I go theatre school though so its easy as hell cos EVERYONES gay lol) and to my Mum first wen I was just turned 15 and now my whole family know! If you haven't come out though seriously i know its hard but it is SUCH a weight off your shoulders! obviously it depends on your families and whatever cos mine are pretty accepting...it was hard at first though! But you will feel so much better after its out in the open
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Re:What age do you come out ?
Date: 2006/07/03 12:27
By: JJ MCR
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Well im 15, and ive come out to 8 friends or something, just the group i can totally trust. And that was a huge help. Now im thinking of a decent time and way to come out to my parents. I keep telling myself i should have done it before September, so i can go to 6th form and be totally out. But i dont know if i will be able to do that. Everytime i get a step further., you get dragged a step back again by little comments from people. I was thinking about telling me Dad in the next 2 weeks, but then he said something about San Francisco and Gay people or something right there, and i was like ok, maybe i wont
But yeah, i dont really think theres a set time either. Whenever you feel comfortable to do so.
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Re:What age do you come out ?
Date: 2006/07/09 03:10
By: dory_rox86
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i came out about a year ago when i was 14... i think it's a good idea to come out to your close friends first because they can support you and give you advice and be there for you if anything goes wrong when you come out
I was thinking about telling me Dad in the next 2 weeks, but then he said something about San Francisco and Gay people or something right there, and i was like 
ok, maybe i wont 