hey, im so confused bout what to do....basically i wanna come out to my close friends family etc. but im sooooo worried that they're gonna start asking about whether ive had sex, with who, where i met them....i dont wanna be stuckhaving to lie about it...but i dont want to tell them either....ive met guys online including one a lot older than me so obviously i dont wanna tell my parents and even if i told a friend im gay AND they were cool with it i still wudnt really wanna tell them alll that kinda stuff cause even if they said that they wudnt tell/were coolwith it; id still not feel totally comfortable telling evenmy close friends about my casual hookups. omg...if u can understand any of that ill love u forever if u anwer
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Re:coming out...help!!!
Date: 2006/05/17 08:09
By: WingedAngel
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Ah...well im sure if you come out to your close friends they wont ask who youve been with unless they are nosy like that
But with family it is different because they just want yah to be safe and not make a wrong choice. lol just tell em half a truth half a lie? xD
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Re:coming out...help!!!
Date: 2006/05/18 02:49
By: theoneandonly
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That's the hard part isn't it? You feel like you're going to internally combust if you don't tell your friends and family, but if you do tell them, external combustion seems a possibility. It's not an easy task, I've struggled with it for a while. Try telling friends and family members who you believe will accept the fact without playing 50 questions. That's was my first step in comming out and it work well for me. Derrick!
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Re:coming out...help!!!
Date: 2006/05/30 01:31
By: fantacan
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Chances are that they will not ask you 50 questions, parents normally let their kids keep info about their love lives to themselves and i dont think it will be any different because you're gay.
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