[size=4][/size] I don't know if anyone else feels this way but i am so afraid of relationships because i am afraid that someone will come and whisper sweet nothings into my ear, sweep me off my feet and leave me broken hearted. That is why i can't accept a compliment without not believing it, does anyone else have this fear, and is there any advice?
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/06 22:50
By: a_Palmy_boi
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Live in the now man! Fuck tomorro.... In other words: love is dangerous, but the rewards are great, even if they only last for a fraction of a second Any interpretation of scripture that hurts people, oppresses people, or destroys people cannot be the right interpretation, no matter how traditional, historical, or exegetically respectable. There can be no debate about the fact that the church’s stand on homosexuality has caused oppression, loneliness, self-hatred, violence, sickness, and suicide for millions of people. If the church wishes to continue with its traditional interpretation it must demonstrate, not just claim, that it is more loving to condemn homosexuality than to affirm homosexuals. Can the church show that same-sex loving relationships damage those involved in them? Can the church give compelling reasons to believe that it would really be better for all lesbians and gay Christians to live alone, without the joy of intimate touch, without hearing the a lover’s voice when they go to sleep or awake? Is it really better for lesbian and gay teenagers to despise themselves and endlessly pray that their very personalities be reconstructed so that they may experience romance like their straight friends? Is it really more loving for the church to continue its worship of “heterosexual fulfillment” (a non-biblical concept, by the way) while consigning thousands of its members to a life of either celibacy or endless psychological manipulations that masquerade as “healing”? – Dale Martin I know its long, but ITS TRUE
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/13 02:36
By: Darkestgirl
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yeah i do...i was in a relationship for 2 years..i love this guy to death but in the end he just raped me and left me
i didnt go out with anyone for 4 years i was sooo scared...to trust anyone and to love anyone
but u should try and find happiness...dont be scared to try new things and dont me scared to get in a comitted relationship..cos i have been down the road..
if u need anything mail me ok xxx
from nora hey nice to meet you..dont be fooled by my looks!
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/15 00:31
By: xrequiemx
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I understand you completely. I just had the same stuff with my bf. Here is my advice, from an personal recent experience. When you find the right person, you'll give him your trust. When you find the one you love, believe me...you'll know. It smacked me in the face like a shovel. I am watching over you from the stars, don't be scared, I know exactly where you are. Cause there's a piece of me and it's burning in your heart. Even death could never tear us apart....
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/18 05:59
By: iOrek
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judge accordingly, dont give your heart to someone who will break it. live your life, dont live in denial. be optimistic and go for it. You will know the time is right, its butterflies, its tingly and you will definitely know that 'Thats the feeling!'
ehehe, hope that helps
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/20 17:00
By: Soulfire
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You can't let your fear hold you back. Remember, it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Relationships have their ups and downs, but you'll find someone to commit too, and it's one of the greatest feelings in the world.
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/20 17:00
By: Soulfire
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Apologies for the double post.
Post edited by: Soulfire, at: 2007/07/20 17:03
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/29 01:17
By: a_Palmy_boi
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Soulfire wrote: You can't let your fear hold you back. Remember, it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Relationships have their ups and downs, but you'll find someone to commit too, and it's one of the greatest feelings in the world.
Yer, thats wat i was tryna say Any interpretation of scripture that hurts people, oppresses people, or destroys people cannot be the right interpretation, no matter how traditional, historical, or exegetically respectable. There can be no debate about the fact that the church’s stand on homosexuality has caused oppression, loneliness, self-hatred, violence, sickness, and suicide for millions of people. If the church wishes to continue with its traditional interpretation it must demonstrate, not just claim, that it is more loving to condemn homosexuality than to affirm homosexuals. Can the church show that same-sex loving relationships damage those involved in them? Can the church give compelling reasons to believe that it would really be better for all lesbians and gay Christians to live alone, without the joy of intimate touch, without hearing the a lover’s voice when they go to sleep or awake? Is it really better for lesbian and gay teenagers to despise themselves and endlessly pray that their very personalities be reconstructed so that they may experience romance like their straight friends? Is it really more loving for the church to continue its worship of “heterosexual fulfillment” (a non-biblical concept, by the way) while consigning thousands of its members to a life of either celibacy or endless psychological manipulations that masquerade as “healing”? – Dale Martin I know its long, but ITS TRUE
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Re:fear
Date: 2007/07/29 18:29
By: loh90
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no longer fear for me. i've already been heart broken. yeah it hurts a damn lot, but i can get over it better each time.
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