-"YAY! NOW I HAVE A GAY FRIEND!" -"...oh." -"How long have you been gay?" -"So who do you like?" -"Do you have a boyfriend?" -"Nuh-uh! Shut up! You're kidding!" (Or some variation) -"So you like boys?" (Respond with: "That's kind of what gay means...") -"Why didn't you TELL ME?" (Answer with: "what am I doing right now?") -"Do your parents know?" (if yes, expect "How do they feel?") and of course; We love you no mater what ( :
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/05/26 17:27
By: DarkRoom
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Heh, I've only come out to about 3 people, and I've already gotten two of those. I have a friend who I think'll give me at least 5 or 6 of those... "Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. The commandments, 'You shall not commit adultery, You shall not kill, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,' and any other commandment, are summed up in this sentence, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law." RSV Romans 13:8-10
The above words are not only the supreme defense against bible pushers discriminating against homosexuals, but also the most moving and possibly the only worthwile text in the bible.
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/06/07 19:41
By: devinious
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I've heard anything from
"Alright" "Whatever" "Uh huh"
To
*shocked silence* "WAIT, REPEAT THAT AGAIN" "Nuh uh!"
It really varies. Usually it doesn't sink in for about a day or so though, after which time you'll usually start getting some real questions. -Be the change you want to see in the world- Ghandi
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/06/20 05:48
By: Cubby
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hows about the response along the lines of
Oh.... I suspecting something and I kinda knew anyway thats what my mummy said I thought I was hiding oh well I don't care anymore hehehe WE ARE ONE
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/06/29 23:48
By: Mezzanotte
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Ones I've had...
"We still love you" - Tash and Tegan, 2 very cool chicks "Oh my God! I still love you" - Keah, the most adorable girl in the world "Ohhhhhhhhhhh" *hugs* - Natasha and Tamika, the craziest of my friends "Really?!" - Sarah-Jean, nicest person around "You're shitting me!" - My best friend Josh "It's okay, I won't tell anyone" - Daniel, a former friend "Are you sure it's not just a stage?" - Courtney, fun to be around "Oh! That is so cool! We can go shopping together!" - Aimee, great gymnast
There's other reactions, but I can't remember them all. Thankfully, everyone has taken it very well.
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/07/02 10:16
By: dstud69
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YAY! NOW I HAVE A GAY FRIEND!" -"...oh." -"How long have you been gay?" -"So who do you like?" -"Do you have a boyfriend?" -"Nuh-uh! Shut up! You're kidding!" (Or some variation) -"So you like boys?" (Respond with: "That's kind of what gay means...") -"Why didn't you TELL ME?" (Answer with: "what am I doing right now?") We love you no mater what ( :
yeah those were some but when i told my best friend, hes awsome and cute!!!, he asked who i like and it was him so i made up some random guy from another town and he said, "oh...... Do i have a cute ass???? I mean since u know these things do i?" then he grabbed my hand and said lets go somewhere else then he told me that i should not do anything because he loved me, as a friend damn, and that didnt change anything....... i thought it did now he asks me if he as a cute ass every day and its quite entertaining to see how many wierd looks i get because he does it infront of ppl that dont know im gay and i always tell him its super sexy and i want it..... lol yeah so that was the happy coming out story now the other one is not so good........
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/07/02 23:05
By: Mihai
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The most annoying in my opinion is "What makes you say that you're gay?". Jeez, I wonder what makes me say that I like watching Southpark. Hmm?
-Mihai "It's only love... what's everyone so scared of?" - Get Real (1998)
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/07/24 06:55
By: KevinRadxCore
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Haha, I've had almost everything said to me about it. My favorite was the simple, "WELL DUHHH!"
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/08/04 18:36
By: TheArtifact
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I got "I don't dislike gay people, I just think it's gross." At least I got a positive "But you're still you and you're still cool". --TheArtifact
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/08/14 11:18
By: Rachavaara
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worst one i got: "OH GOD YOU DON'T FANCY ME DO YOU?" (I was like, no, but CHEERS)
best one: "really?" "yer" "COOOOOOL" (He is such a great lil guy.)
I suppose I've been lucky looking at some of the other posts
Post edited by: Rachavaara, at: 2007/08/14 11:19 Me.
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/08/21 23:04
By: Qloor
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ive gotten tons of these
"YAY! NOW I HAVE A GAY FRIEND!"
"How long have you been gay?"
"So who do you like?"
"That's cool, I have a gay (uncle)"
"What made you want to be gay?" (asses)
"REALLY!? So what do you think of (certain guys)
"Do your parents know?"
"I don't have any problems with gay people, as long as they don't hit on me or anything."
and "LET'S GO SHOPPING!!"
=|
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
Date: 2007/09/04 02:20
By: pumpkinboy
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Haha! Some of those are absolutely hilarious!
I got some of the above and a few classics:
"What makes you think you're gay?" (my mum) "He's too camp to be gay" (my friend's mum in a discussion about who in our friendship group was most likely to be gay - this is hilarious because she still doesn't know and thinks I'm straight) "Great, so my first boyfriend was gay" (my ex-girlfriend, who is incredibly supportive and fine with the whole thing) "Do you fancy Calum?" - Calum is this uber-hot guy at school. I didn't even try and pretend on this one
And a great little snippet of coming out conversation:
Me: I need to tell you all [about 8 friends] something... Much trauma and me going "I can't say it" about 20 times Me: I'm gay Friends: We know Many hugs, reassurance etc. etc. while everyone looks thoroughly unsurprised Friends: You can't surprise us that easily Friend: So who do you fancy? Me: Tom Friends: biggest looks of surprise EVER
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, and that didnt change anything....... i thought it did now he asks me if he as a cute ass every day and its quite entertaining to see how many wierd looks i get because he does it infront of ppl that dont know im gay and i always tell him its super sexy and i want it..... lol yeah so that was the happy coming out story now the other one is not so good........
biggest looks of surprise EVER