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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/05/24 16:00
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By: johann92
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Here are the ones I got ( :
-"YAY! NOW I HAVE A GAY FRIEND!"
-"...oh."
-"How long have you been gay?"
-"So who do you like?"
-"Do you have a boyfriend?"
-"Nuh-uh! Shut up! You're kidding!" (Or some variation)
-"So you like boys?" (Respond with: "That's kind of what gay means...")
-"Why didn't you TELL ME?" (Answer with: "what am I doing right now?")
-"Do your parents know?" (if yes, expect "How do they feel?")
and of course; We love you no mater what ( :
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/05/26 17:27
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By: DarkRoom
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Heh, I've only come out to about 3 people, and I've already gotten two of those. I have a friend who I think'll give me at least 5 or 6 of those...
"Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. The commandments, 'You shall not commit adultery, You shall not kill, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,' and any other commandment, are summed up in this sentence, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law." RSV Romans 13:8-10
The above words are not only the supreme defense against bible pushers discriminating against homosexuals, but also the most moving and possibly the only worthwile text in the bible.
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/06/07 19:41
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By: devinious
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I've heard anything from
"Alright"
"Whatever"
"Uh huh"
To
*shocked silence*
"WAIT, REPEAT THAT AGAIN"
"Nuh uh!"
It really varies. Usually it doesn't sink in for about a day or so though, after which time you'll usually start getting some real questions.
-Be the change you want to see in the world-
Ghandi
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/06/20 05:48
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By: Cubby
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hows about the response along the lines of
Oh.... I suspecting something and I kinda knew anyway
thats what my mummy said
I thought I was hiding oh well I don't care anymore hehehe
WE ARE ONE
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/06/29 23:48
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By: Mezzanotte
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Ones I've had...
"We still love you" - Tash and Tegan, 2 very cool chicks
"Oh my God! I still love you" - Keah, the most adorable girl in the world
"Ohhhhhhhhhhh" *hugs* - Natasha and Tamika, the craziest of my friends
"Really?!" - Sarah-Jean, nicest person around
"You're shitting me!" - My best friend Josh
"It's okay, I won't tell anyone" - Daniel, a former friend
"Are you sure it's not just a stage?" - Courtney, fun to be around
"Oh! That is so cool! We can go shopping together!" - Aimee, great gymnast
There's other reactions, but I can't remember them all. Thankfully, everyone has taken it very well.
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/07/02 10:16
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By: dstud69
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YAY! NOW I HAVE A GAY FRIEND!"
-"...oh."
-"How long have you been gay?"
-"So who do you like?"
-"Do you have a boyfriend?"
-"Nuh-uh! Shut up! You're kidding!" (Or some variation)
-"So you like boys?" (Respond with: "That's kind of what gay means...")
-"Why didn't you TELL ME?" (Answer with: "what am I doing right now?")
We love you no mater what ( :
yeah those were some but when i told my best friend, hes awsome and cute!!!, he asked who i like and it was him so i made up some random guy from another town and he said, "oh...... Do i have a cute ass???? I mean since u know these things do i?" then he grabbed my hand and said lets go somewhere else then he told me that i should not do anything because he loved me, as a friend damn , and that didnt change anything....... i thought it did now he asks me if he as a cute ass every day and its quite entertaining to see how many wierd looks i get because he does it infront of ppl that dont know im gay and i always tell him its super sexy and i want it..... lol yeah so that was the happy coming out story now the other one is not so good........
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/07/02 23:05
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By: Mihai
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The most annoying in my opinion is "What makes you say that you're gay?". Jeez, I wonder what makes me say that I like watching Southpark. Hmm?
-Mihai
"It's only love... what's everyone so scared of?" - Get Real (1998)
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/07/24 06:55
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By: KevinRadxCore
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Haha, I've had almost everything said to me about it. My favorite was the simple, "WELL DUHHH!" 
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/08/04 18:36
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By: TheArtifact
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I got "I don't dislike gay people, I just think it's gross." At least I got a positive "But you're still you and you're still cool".
--TheArtifact
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/08/14 11:18
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By: Rachavaara
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worst one i got:
"OH GOD YOU DON'T FANCY ME DO YOU?" (I was like, no, but CHEERS)
best one:
"really?" "yer" "COOOOOOL" (He is such a great lil guy.)
I suppose I've been lucky looking at some of the other posts 
Post edited by: Rachavaara, at: 2007/08/14 11:19
Me.
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/08/21 23:04
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By: Qloor
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ive gotten tons of these
"YAY! NOW I HAVE A GAY FRIEND!"
"How long have you been gay?"
"So who do you like?"
"That's cool, I have a gay (uncle)"
"What made you want to be gay?" (asses)
"REALLY!? So what do you think of (certain guys)
"Do your parents know?"
"I don't have any problems with gay people, as long as they don't hit on me or anything."
and "LET'S GO SHOPPING!!"
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/09/04 02:20
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By: pumpkinboy
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Haha! Some of those are absolutely hilarious!
I got some of the above and a few classics:
"What makes you think you're gay?" (my mum)
"He's too camp to be gay" (my friend's mum in a discussion about who in our friendship group was most likely to be gay - this is hilarious because she still doesn't know and thinks I'm straight)
"Great, so my first boyfriend was gay" (my ex-girlfriend, who is incredibly supportive and fine with the whole thing)
"Do you fancy Calum?" - Calum is this uber-hot guy at school. I didn't even try and pretend on this one 
And a great little snippet of coming out conversation:
Me: I need to tell you all [about 8 friends] something...
Much trauma and me going "I can't say it" about 20 times
Me: I'm gay
Friends: We know
Many hugs, reassurance etc. etc. while everyone looks thoroughly unsurprised
Friends: You can't surprise us that easily
Friend: So who do you fancy?
Me: Tom
Friends:  biggest looks of surprise EVER
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/09/26 07:37
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By: P_W
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i got
"oh my god, thats so cool, why cant i be gay"
and
"oh my god, i can't be your friend anymore, you might fancy me" - bloody ignorant bitch.
and also
"gay people are a freak of nature"
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/10/07 07:07
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By: Syddy02
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I haven't came out yet (well, except to one of my friends.... but not everyone), and by the sounds of it, it's going to be hell! Lmfao, do you seriously have to know what you're going to say?
And, what if you came out to another gay person? Like, I have a lesbian friend, and I've been wondering what she'd say to me!
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/10/13 19:52
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By: J_Hal
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I was given,
"Are you like serious? Okay"
lol she thought I was joking at first
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/10/18 22:09
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By: Jonah88
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I've had so far...
"aww..." *hugs* "you can be my gay friend"
"really? do you want to talk about this"
" *silence* you're so brave, I love you and I'm proud of you"
" Really?... "
"I have a headache... oh I still love you, it doesn't matter to me you're still one of my best friends"
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/11/06 06:46
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By: ....
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"ahh right. when did all this happen. i've already accepted it i was just wondering when you'd get there" gotta love friends
"oh god is that it, i thought you were gonna say you had cancer!"
*laughs and then falls over* "that explains it" (she was drunk, lol)
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/11/09 15:58
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By: MadFan
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I've told three people, therefore have had three reactions.
1. Chloe = ( for three seconds) ..."Awesome! Give me a hug."
2. Sylvie = ( the entire time)
3. My mom = "oh honey, are you sure? You're 15, your hormones are flippin' and floppin' all over the place, give it a while and then get back to me babe okay thanks."
All of them accepted it really quickly though.
Post edited by: MadFan, at: 2007/11/09 15:58
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/11/26 18:22
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By: Carazyb0i
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Here are some of the things my friends said, well the things that stick out in my mind now.
"We have to go shopping! No wonder you loved Abercrombie!" <---- Vickitoria
"That's okay man, we're still friends" <----- Kevin
"So have you had sex yet?" <----- Kaitlyn (Why is Gay automaticlly associated with sex for straight people?)
"OMAGASH! I ALWAYS WANTED A GAY FRIEND" <--- Joy
"My ex-boyfriend was gay" <--- Nadia (<3 Love that hoe)
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Well those are mine
Hopefully my parents are nice about it. Some of what your parents said was really harsh.
*Scared*
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Re:Things you can expect to hear
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Date: 2007/11/27 07:46
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By: lee9
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Not now Ive gotta headache - best mate who thought i was jokin
Still waiting for you to laugh in my face and say ur jokin - Another mate 2 weeks later
You cant be gay, look at Glen (very camp lad) then look at you - Quite a few people
Your too macho to be gay - why thank you
Then when finally people accepted I was (still a few who think im still takin the piss);
Come with me now, I'll make you straight - No thanks love (random girl in the school)
You give or recieve? - Give me your bank details was the reply
Whats Lee and a radiator got in common......both get turned on by nobs - Said in light heart of course
And all that soppy your still the same person stuff.
Oh this one tickled me, good old Paul fat head shouts out (to the tune "when a man loves a woman" - When a man loves Lee Holman (my name obviously). Made me chuckle 
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