We've heard all the talk on what age we can really decide what sexuality we are. How about what age we should start to pratice what we are?
I have been homosexually active since I was 13. I have a friend who claims to have had his first experience at 6, and yet another who is my age, and has yet to have one. But how young is too young? Did my friend do the right thing at 6? (the experience was of course, with a fellow six year old, not an adult).
My boyfriend is only 13. This is an area of concern to me, as I am 17, and subsequently all my friends, think he is 15 and his friends think I am 15. Should we live that lie like that? Should we never have gone out?
Is age just really a number? If so, why arent we all queing up to date those sweet sixty year olds?
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/01/31 08:59
By: Pc_Plod
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Hmm, age isn't too serious, the age gap lessons in severity as you age.
I was a bit concerned about ages when I started speaking to someone who was 15 (I am 17) so I looked into the law...the law in England and Wales states that as long as both parties are between the ages of 13 and 18 the law will most likely not prosecute for any sexual offences except rape.
So I suppose 13-14 is about the right age to start, that’s just my opinion, I’ve still done nothing and I’m 17…what do you think?
Andy
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/01/31 21:18
By: kinaholik
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In the end it's up to each person to decide, i guess. But there is the law i suppose. Here in new zealand its 16 years but its not really enforced unless its a major case, like an adult with underage people. Pardon my ranting. I really am crazy today.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/02/14 05:20
By: balby_lad
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My m8s dont think your 15, only my cusains do.
I think there is nothhing wrong with our age gap, uts up to us not others aroundus (aka. Callum n Daniel). If we like each other and are happy then we should not care about the age. xxxluv u Rest in peace Jenny, i will always love and think about you, you will always be in my heart xxxxxxxxxxx
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/02/25 15:38
By: boybitsweb
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13 and 17 seems ok to me if u are both happy...
and thats nothing compared to say the 60 year old playboy guy who dates 20 year olds
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/05/20 17:30
By: //Open.me.up_dr
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I don't think age is too important. It can be seen as a bit iffy when the ages are either side of 16~ But i think it's fine.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/05/21 02:28
By: eversweet
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Morgan05 wrote: Is age just really a number? If so, why arent we all queing up to date those sweet sixty year olds?
Because, Mr. Morgan, even if age isn't important, perhaps generation is. Each generation nearly has their own unique culture, and then their subcultures. Age isn't the only thing concerned with 60-year-olds and people our age. ~Megan~
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/05/21 09:12
By: kreamy
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eversweet wrote: Morgan05 wrote: Is age just really a number? If so, why arent we all queing up to date those sweet sixty year olds?
Because, Mr. Morgan, even if age isn't important, perhaps generation is. Each generation nearly has their own unique culture, and then their subcultures. Age isn't the only thing concerned with 60-year-olds and people our age.
Exactly, impotence is.
My biggest concern is the intellectual and psychological barrier; I usually don't tend to get along with younger people that well past that which is superficial. If it works for you then it's great though I'm happy for the both of ya!
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/05/21 13:53
By: eversweet
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I'm happy for the both of ya!
Hm.
well......
I'm holding my tongue on this one. Morgan can tell you when he's online next. Or you could read his blog. ~Megan~
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/05/21 15:56
By: kreamy
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yeesh *tugs collar*
sorry.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/05/25 18:08
By: Both_Ways_013
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I don't think they'd do much about the age diffrence but I would've told them just anyway's what ages you are. Like not have it be a secret thing. When birthday's roll around that might be a little hard to explain to everyone not to mention infront of your parents. Especially if they come out with a big blue cake that has 18 written in big buldgy white frosting.
kreamy wrote: My biggest concern is the intellectual and psychological barrier; I usually don't tend to get along with younger people that well past that which is superficial. If it works for you then it's great though I'm happy for the both of ya!
Yeah the age intellectual and psychological barrier would be waaaaay too difficult for me. I am vastly open minded so it seems like I'm smarter than most adults I meet. And when you actually KNOW you're smarter than the person then you tend to use those smarts to teach or somefin funny like that. (God knows I do) If you're happy then you're happy just do your best to not get caught or something like in a difficult situation. You could tell each friend seperatly about one another so everyone knows but doesn't know that others know. (does that make sense?)
Anyway's what do I know I'm just a 14 year old kid. One bright day in the middle of the night two dead boys got up to fight. They stood back to back as they faced eachother they pulled out their swords and shot one another. The deaf policeman heard the noise so he came and killed the two dead boys. If you do not believe this lie is true you can ask the blind man he saw it too.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2006/05/26 01:11
By: bababoo
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Its only 4 yrs when your 24 and hes 20 no one will be bothered but it seems to be worse when your young E.G if a 13 yr old went out with a 9 yr old it would be looked down on but my grandparents have 11 yrs between them and no-ones bothered tbh
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I'm happy for the both of ya!
