Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/03 12:50
By: omg ur sick
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I don't think age matters at all but when 13 yr olds and things message me, it really freaks me out, i havn't a clue y , but say a 19 yr old messaged me i wouldn't find it weird :/.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/04 06:04
By: djandy1990@hotmail.com
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I get what you mean there, I think when that happens to me (being 17) it kinda freaks me out abit, although some of my greatest friends are a cupla years older than me, and one, which I had a crush on was quite older than me when we met... I don't think it should stop people from being atleast friends though!
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/04 09:44
By: chels72818
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i think there is nothing wrong with a big age gap as long as the ages of the people are okay. like a 15 yr old and a 24...thats a no but 18 and 27 mayve be okay.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/07 02:01
By: Rob2
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I think 16 is probably the correct age of consent, however I also believe that someone perhaps as young as 14 COULD be ready to have sex as part of a relationship (although most wouldn't)
Personally (aged 16) I'd probably be prepared to go out with someone 14-20? I don't think there is a set limit though and think people can find love outwith age
My eyes are going funny and I'm probably typing a load of crap, so now I'm away to get something to eat
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/07 07:02
By: DragoS
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Ya i agree wit you rob.. but i find that aged teens @ 15 or 16 it is ok to be wit a 25 year old.. as long as u are aware of ur partneer and and can work together.. persoanly as a 15 year old going on 16.. id say that any1 aged 14 - 25 would be good for me.. and one thing to be aware of is tha fact of being used.. that could be a problem over the age gap otherwise it would be ok cause.. if u have a 23 year old and he is using the 15 year old for sex it dosent work.. and vise versa.. but im sure you get the point!
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
Date: 2007/04/14 18:33
By: azureskies
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My views on age difference in relationships are that love is love, irrespective of age, and as long as the intentions of either partner aren't perverted in nature, it isn't an issue, after a certain threshold. After the age of 15-16, I believe it is acceptable for there to be an age gap, such as say a 16 year old with a 25 year old provided it wasn't just about sex. In the end, it all boils down to how mature the people are on the inside and the intentions of the respective partners. Age is just a number, after all.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/14 19:03
By: LukeLikesMen
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few years appart doesen't matter much. but hm if its like 5and over i think its kinda wrong. depending on your age. because seriously, older man, really want, sex and other a real relationship, ut most of them is sex...
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/15 05:19
By: brite_1991
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Intergenerational relationships (i.e gaps of over 10 years) can be perfectly acceptable. Personally I think, that if someone is in love with another person, then what could be wrong? Some poeple argue that it has moral drawbacks or even that you have the risk of getting hurt. Both can be true, but in some circumnstances there is nothing wrong.
Basically, you have to be carefull out there. Especially on the net. A couple of months ago I was on another social networking site, and there were so many men over 35 ranging to 70 trying to make contact with younger poeple. Some were even posing as poeple our own age. It's really dangerous, sometimes because all they are intrested in is sex and nothing more, and you run a high risk of getting hurt. Of course there are some generally good poeple out there, who want a relationship, and if you are commited enough, you can make it work.
I came to the GYC because there were some many poeple on other sites over 30 trying to contact me. I dont have any intrest in having that kind of relationship. In my opinion, I think poeple should stick to their own age really, but hey it's your own choice.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
Date: 2007/04/15 14:49
By: quirky84
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well, I'm 23 and I'm married to the man of my life who's 35. the sad thing is people think I'm the older one. we both know when to have fun and when to be responsible. I guess you need a certain level of understanding. Having said that, some of the things I do cracks him up, haven't got a clue why and his northerness can go right over me. I could make excuses that I'm really mature, geeky and he works in showbiz but hey it's a deeper connection at the end of the day.
people seemed tolerant about us going out, but when we decided to get married, everyone went 'Oh, are you sure?'.... urm....nah, haven't thought about it.
at then end of the day, everyone's imperfect and you stick to the one perfect for you.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
Date: 2007/04/19 05:48
By: Callum Fraser
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I am gonna be totally honest
I think its sick!
Maybe if its a 30/40 year old with a 50/60 year old, that isnt too bad.
But 14/15/16 year olds with 25+ year olds, that is WRONG!
in my opinion I wanted this account deleted, but not much unlike MySpace, they wouldn't. Well, here I have a little something.
FUCK YOU GYC.
Maybe that will get the profile deleted.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
Date: 2007/04/19 11:12
By: justaguy15
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I think relationships with large age gaps can work and can be a positive thing, we can’t choose or decide who we fall for and why, it just happens and in some cases it could be somebody a lot older/younger than ourselves.
I’m not saying it’s always a good thing, there are limits which I think should be respected, like being in a relationship with somebody too young or too old as I think for both parties its unfair (and a little icky), lets say for example an 18 year old guy is dating a 45 year old guy, I don’t think that would work as well, they may be madly in love but there are other factors to consider, how it’ll effect their lives in the long run if the relationship stretches out for years, it won’t be fair. What if the younger one wants some things relating to youth and the older one wants other things because he’s older? It just won’t work.
And even if they don’t happen to have those obstacles it won’t be fair on the younger guy as by the time he’s 36, the older guy will be 63, getting quite old and it may not be fair on the younger guy, it may force him to grow up a little too fast when maybe he’s not ready to. In my view a ten or maybe fifteen year age gap is okay (though being sensible), but going beyond that is stretching it a little.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
Date: 2007/04/20 00:30
By: Callum Fraser
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dragonking wrote: Well i dont think 14 year olds should be dating at all... like really you think its a big deal but it aint. You should pace yourself and do things as you get older cause if you do everything when your young well you just end up getting too old too quickly.
That is true...
To think young teens and even pre-teens are dating is just wrong... I didnt even know what sexuality WAS at those ages I wanted this account deleted, but not much unlike MySpace, they wouldn't. Well, here I have a little something.
FUCK YOU GYC.
Maybe that will get the profile deleted.
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, but say a 19 yr old messaged me i wouldn't find it weird :/.
