To be quite honest, my gaydar has been like super duper crazy good lately.
It's reaching a ridiculous point lately.
I hope it isn't just a fluke. =/
hahahahahahahahaha.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2006/11/11 07:50
By: apenguin
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tn32500 wrote: i have had sex with str8 boys when we were in middle school...iono but i think everyone trys sex with the same sex at leaste once...or wanted to how you do that? DramaFreaK07 wrote: i agree w/ all of u, its not fun falling 4 str8 guys. but 2 me they're just so cute and/or hot. friends w/ benefits w/ str8 guys would b fun if it existed. i have a friend and be4 he graduated he would take me everywhere, he would pay 4 my way n2 the movies, pay 4 my supper, if i wuz silent he would ask wut wut wuz wrong, we had conversations where he wuz just sooo open. basically the sweetest guy u've ever met n ur life, and i dont think he's ever had a g/f. but now we hardly talk because he's so busy, but i just wish i could tell him how i feel about him.
man texas sux, damn haters!!! this is up to you, try to make a hole in his timetable and tell him, i know easier to say than to do but if you want smthng, you should fight for it, plus as you said yourself you don't see him much now, so you haven't got much to loose. All you need is a little courage, and WILL.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/01/06 13:27
By: shyNewguy
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Hmmm... with all thats said, my school has to be the most highest crime school iv'e ever seen, so of course if their were any gay guys they wouldnt try and show it to others in this school, TRUST ME. So i don't have or know anyone who is gay, so i stick with websites and hopefully find a guy i like in my area, and hook up during summer Vacation.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/01/10 03:53
By: Captain Nemo
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I can spot a gay man a mile away in fog! =] Not that it does me any good, lol I can't tell a straight girl from a lesbian, so don't feel bad if you can't tell. Gawd, I wonder if there's any way to buy a more efficient gaydar....
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/03/07 00:47
By: Kanae
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My gaydar has had a terrible record. My first encounter came on to me, but after a year he confirmed he was straight. Another guy I was certain was gay: I managed to seduce him for an evening, however this was probably one of the biggest mistakes I have made to date. He wasn't gay.
However, recently, my gaydar's improved a little. I've started looking for guys around me, and there are a few I haven't noticed. none in my year, sadly, but there are some guys I think are probably gay.
At a debating tournement, it was a hoard of potentially gay guys. There wasn't time to chat, but I did manage to flirt with a guy I thought was gay. Turned out he had a girlfriend, but was bi. It's getting a little sharper, it seems.
The well-dressed straight men don't bother me so much anymore; I tend to look for body language, now: it's much more effective.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/03/15 14:28
By: TimelordSimone
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I've so far managed to fall for a huuuuuge load of straight guys... It's depressing. The closest I managed was a guy who told me he was bi, then decided he was straight, and now 'doesn't know where he is with that' He totally led me on though. I mean, I asked him out (after he'd told me he was bi) and he somehow managed to distract me, and not answer. He's hard work. I mean, we're still friends but... He reeeeaaally gets on my nerves. BUT I have managed to find myself a real live gay guy now. Awoohoo.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/03/18 06:19
By: modelbehavior
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Benjamin wrote: Why do I keep falling for straight guys? Frankly it's really starting to do my head in. And this new '21st Century heterosexual man' thing doesnt help. before you could tell that if someone was gay they dressed really, really well and their hair was good (how shallow does that sound) but now this 'new man' is starting to confuse me; their hair is better and their fashion sense is borderline homo! Clearly my gaydar needs new batteries...
Yeah, I have the same problem. You can't tell who is gay as easily anymore! It is like I'll start flirting with a guy that I am 100% sure is gay and he'll look at me with disgust and I'll be like "oh, okay." It is so silly ready to uff
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/04/02 10:05
By: mindyyy
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I have an amazing gaydar for boys, but the only way that helps me is that i know what boys I can never date. I can't tell a girl's gay unless she outright tells me. I've hooked up with a few girls from church and school, but that's because they know I'm out, not because I knew they're gay. <3
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/04/11 19:23
By: JoEy15Mass
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Benji... its funny you say this i will have to agree. These days u cant really even tell if someone is str8 or gay because alot of guys act str8 because they fear that they will be banned from America!!!
ha ha.. lol for instance... this kid that i met online and we met and talked and stuff hes scared to meet me again because of his religion it says that two dicks cant be togher or he goes to hell!!!
Thank you Lord!!! I hate you!!! you ruined a good reationship... I liked this kid! and still do!
Benjamin wrote: Why do I keep falling for straight guys? Frankly it's really starting to do my head in. And this new '21st Century heterosexual man' thing doesnt help. before you could tell that if someone was gay they dressed really, really well and their hair was good (how shallow does that sound) but now this 'new man' is starting to confuse me; their hair is better and their fashion sense is borderline homo! Clearly my gaydar needs new batteries...Im 17 and Bisexual. Because of this I am harased daily at school.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/04/15 06:50
By: TinyRu
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Its all so true. And horribly unfair. Funny tho, my gaydar for guys is almost immpecable. But with girls i'm completly at sea. So thats a great load of use. Its worst when the person in question is perfect in EVERY single way, 'sept their straight. Which stinks.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/04/15 07:06
By: Fiyero
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Yeah, I'd definately say that straight guys are becoming more homo lately.
I've fallen for those kinds of guys a while but I never really like wanted to go out with them. I can usually tell.
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Re:Vicious Circle of hetero-ness
Date: 2007/04/25 13:23
By: touchztone
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when i was at school, i just assumed everyone was straight. it was easy! you don't wanna think someone is gay, make a move, then for them to either not be, or not be happy being gay so tell everyone you are and then your fucked up.
There was a str8 guy I knew who was engaged to a friend of mind who kept calling me and asking about me being gay and sex and stuff, basically wanting to have sex me. I kept telling him I wouldn't until he called off the engagement - because I didn't think he should hurt her. Anyway she found out and had a go at him, he blamed it on me, now they are married.
He still says he is str8 but obviously isn't. And I petty their kids lol.
I guess my point is that you can't tell anymore. Or I don't think you ever could. Gay men come in all shapes and sizes and stereotypes are being thrown out the window. And having a girlfriend (or even wife) doesn't mean anything.
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