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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/06/14 15:10
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By: Finjen
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lol these are great, espeicllay whole deer caught in the headlight look. Most probably another one though that some of my friends tried is coming out on mass, DON'T do it! Heaps of people reacted badly mostly of over load and shock (I should mention I didn't try this method, a bunch of friends did).
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/06/23 01:42
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By: daveywavey
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Thanks for the tips. I haven't come out to any of my friends or family yet and i'm really nervous about it but what you posted is really good advice and i am definetly going to use it when i eventually come out. Thanks. 
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/06/27 17:42
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By: Nightmare91
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nice tips thanks
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/07/04 21:58
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By: pogostickrider123
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21. Always have an escape plan. You may not need it, but if you do, you won't be surprised. Have a place to crash for the night, and money you can get to in case a worse case scenario does occur.
this 1 is very true!!!!!!
my parents made me live at my aiuts 4 almost a year then sent me to military school!!!!
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/07/04 21:58
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By: pogostickrider123
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21. Always have an escape plan. You may not need it, but if you do, you won't be surprised. Have a place to crash for the night, and money you can get to in case a worse case scenario does occur.
this 1 is very true!!!!!!
my parents made me live at my aiuts 4 almost a year then sent me to military school!!!!
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/09/13 04:36
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By: lOvE_iT_lIvE
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OMG thanks 4 them i need tips on cuming out and sum of them a gr8
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/09/16 10:21
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By: leannexox
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great advice! number 2 and 17 amused me lol
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/09/16 10:22
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By: leannexox
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great advice! number 2 and 17 amused me lol
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/11/05 06:17
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By: Crazed91
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I'm not out yet so I loved these, but I'll wait for a little while. Maby forever
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/11/10 00:03
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By: adrlover
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Here's couple I have a bad experience with.
26) Don't come out when you are at a sleep over or spending the night at a same gender friends house. It could be okay...but still a bad idea.
27) Try not to be really tired, studies show sleep deprivation does the same things to your brain that alcohol does. Remember the be sober message? Same applies here.
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/11/10 09:24
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By: MadFan
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2 absolutely killed me. 
Anyway, my advice would be: DO NOT come out to a parent first unless you're absolutely sure that they'd accept it. Most parents go through this five-step stage before they finally accept your homosexuality/bisexuality. Now my mom was very accepting immediately (thank God), but I still came out to a friend first.
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/11/10 09:50
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By: ....
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it's all very well saying don't come out when drunk.
but try remembering that when drunk lol
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/11/10 13:39
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By: MadFan
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.... wrote:
it's all very well saying don't come out when drunk.
but try remembering that when drunk lol
Uh oh... what did you do? I want details.
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/11/24 13:52
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By: hmfan101
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kewl tips, thanks 
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/12/05 15:25
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By: PT23
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Confession!...I've done 2 and 8 HAHA....2 I was driving to wasn't too bad, and he totaly accepted...lol..and 8 was drunk and opened my mouth...lol...mostly all my friends there are gay themselves so it worked out....and the ones who are not are cool with it too...lol...But for the rest i shall keep im mind, especially when i tell my rents. If i even tell them...lol...i'll prolly just say goin to the movies with my GF(If i have one)...lol...that would be the way to do it. HAHA
Enjoy
PT
"Feel it in your heart and in your soul, let the music take control" - Lionel Richie
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/12/15 18:36
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By: RSco
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You forgot one. The first person you come out to, have it be someone you know will support you (for real) and do it in person. You will probably need/want a hug. Overall, though, very good tips.
"Be who you are and say what you feel-those who mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind."
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2007/12/19 01:07
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By: lostwithoutlove
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these are great tips. i'll propably use them in the near future (possibly in the next couple of weeks).
this is propably the most obvious one to say but i'll say it anyways.
28) the more people you tell the easier it'll get. start off slow with a couple of friends knowing & in a year you'll propably have worked up to telling the parents.
29) never come out to parents first. they tend to have to get over it, takes a hell of a long time. my parents only just got over it themselves. but they're cool wiv it now
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2008/01/21 05:00
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By: HNIC123
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Thats really good... but might also wanna add not to be within arms distance of sum ppl... a black eye ususally isnt hot
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2008/01/23 15:49
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By: mikaboy13
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pogostickrider123 wrote:
21. Always have an escape plan. You may not need it, but if you do, you won't be surprised. Have a place to crash for the night, and money you can get to in case a worse case scenario does occur.
this 1 is very true!!!!!!
my parents made me live at my aiuts 4 almost a year then sent me to military school!!!!
OMG! you poor thing 
you survived it there though? lol i am way to flamboyant to go to military school... lol
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Re:24 Coming Out Tips
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Date: 2008/03/15 08:07
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By: Silverythoughts
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lol, i failed number two. i came out to my dad in the car on the way home from school xD thankfully he didn't crash the car but i wanted to tell him there to make sure he wouldn't...escape...and neither would i chicken out either..
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