I have never dated before (not evena girl) and when I turn 18 in 6 months I would like to start dating guys. Here is my question, how does a relationship start? I mean, i know it sounds kinda dumb (well, it is dumb!), but how do a series of dates turn into a realtionship? I mean, I know that people date, but not every date turns in to a serious realtionship. But, if you have been dating for a while, how do you take the next step and becomes boyfriends? I know it sounds dumb, but I have no idea about dating whatsoever. I guess what I am trying to say is how do you go abut starting a relationship?
Please, humor my stupidity... ready to uff
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2006/09/15 21:17
By: Jas3960
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I've never had a boyfriend either. Then again I'm young - 14. Well, if it's dating you want I recommend finding a gay bar. There is probably one in your town or a nearby one. Then again, that's not really a place for long relationships. All you really need is to meet someone you like and who likes you and take them somewhere nice. The cinema/theatre is a good one. Or a peaceful area outside or anywhere you like really. Keep going places with him. Eventually ask him out. Does this help. I wouldn't really know how it does because I never have myself. Good luck. Jas Happy with a capital =D
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2006/10/15 21:25
By: dm213312
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Well, in my eyes a realtionship starts when you start to commit yourself to one person, more so than others. As such a relationship----(be it romatic, just friends, enemies) will sart whenever you start to give more of your self to one person. So I would say that a relationship will start between you and someone else, whenever you are comfortable enough with them. Just think of how you felt about your friends when you first met them, and how you feel now..... Dunno if I made any sence. lol. Boyz have more fun.... when they are with other boyz
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2006/10/16 00:45
By: tiger88
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first of all you have to find someone that you like. after you do that just hang out with them for a while. if u like them, and they like u....well then ask him on a date. its kinda like beeing scared when makeing new friends. but after u make the friends you like them a lot. well....thats all i got if it helps out ne
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2006/10/18 10:08
By: j0az
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my advice is to go to one of the local gay men clubs. if you look on the internet you will find one near you.lots of people go there to start relationships.(clothes are optional,but not always perferred)
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2006/10/18 10:11
By: j0az
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i agree with the other guy. try the local clubs.and if that doesnt work, head to the gay part of key west.:laugh
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2006/10/20 05:39
By: itsjordan
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First off....its NOT a dumb question.....and if youve never dated...its a realy good question! Like many topics...i have an oppinion. First off.....I think if your gay, and not out....your realy limited on how you can go about it. Ive only dated 2 guys.....the first one is when i was still in the closet, and to be totaly honest i kinda lucked out on that one...cuz the dude ended up comming out to me....then later i came out to him, and a few weeks later we where dating. My bf i have now (most awesome person in the world i might add) I met at the GSA meeting. Before we started dating we where like friends for like maybe 4 months...then he asked me out. So i dont know that that realy helped you cuz i kinda got lucky both times because basicaly both guys ive gone out with asked me....im kinda shy about that stuff so thats probly a good thing. But i do know this....its guna be realy hard for you if you dont place yourself with other gay people. Good luck!......Jordan
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/01/05 20:24
By: melvin_2b
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I have a problem with my Boyfriend. It's sort of a long distance relationship over the computer. He's never online since he "liked" me but I just need help to find out maybe why he's never online. Do u long distance relationships work out? I don't know what to do about that... Plz help me!
And my advice for you modelbehavior is that to ask him out often get to know him and tell him about urself. Make good use of the time when ur both alone together, go to romantic places: Theaters, Parks, and Beaches...
Hope that helps, Melvin
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/03/10 12:37
By: kevrobinson
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Well, in my case, there wasn't really a sudden transaction from friends to lovers.
When I came out, my friend told me that she had another gay friend, and introduced me to him. I knew who he was- although we'd never talked- I remember seeing him go to her house a few times (and I really fancied him then).
Anyway we were talking for a few month and went out a few times with the girl that introduced us (bowling etc.) and then somewhere along the line we started kissing and were in a proper relationship.
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/03/11 03:33
By: cyby
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I don't think there needs to always be a defining moment when someone asked someone else out. My past few relationships never had that. We just eventually went backwards and said, "hey, let's set a date for our anniversary."
It works out ok
And LDRs can work, but with a lot of commitment and stability. It probably works out a little better when both parties are older, because they then have the liberty to travel more and see each other. I've seen many LDRs work out
My relationship started as a LDR for a good year or so, but we were also friends for years before that.
I will say that LDRs take a different set of requirements and skill sets to deal with. Trust and a lot of resisting real life temptations come into play..... If a, b are positive integers such that (ab+1)|(a^2+b^2), prove that (a^2+b^2)/(ab+1) is a perfect square.
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/04/17 23:25
By: quirky84
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I remember that moment being in a gay bar, one saturday afternoon holding hands and saying to each other: I love you. and then we sort of became proper boyfriends. and this was like 3 months of dating.
it's something both people know it's the next step forward i guess.
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/04/18 09:06
By: good
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it happens........ when you least expect it to
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lol. 
