what would be the best way of coming and and what are your coming out experiences?
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Re:coming out?
Date: 2008/03/29 15:50
By: Andrew_secret_25
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well for me it went smothely with everybody i've told. but only my close friends, parnets & a cuz know, i just take them aside in an area where i know if they freak out or do a huge deal about it it won't get passed around to ppl that don't need to know. i recoment starting with friend, and beffore telling ur parents u should have a place to crash if they take it too badly, i had that plan with a friend who lived about 10 min away by walk, even tho my parents have known taht i was gay for a few yrs beffore i told them, they understood that it's difficult to tell somebody something or this size. i had a backup plan and everything. u just need to know that ur friends might take is harder then others, girls take it much better then guys. guys will be afraid that ur atracted to them, but if u tell them taht it's still the same you and ur not a different person it will make things much simpler, and when u come out to ur parents NEVER do it with ur bf, it might be way too much for them too take in all at once. the best thing is too have a plan, i did it on istinct for a few ppl and it crashed big time so don't do it on instinct. Good luck Andrew
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