meismeisme wrote: I too am slightly confused about dating. OK, i meet-up with gay friends and stuff, but how does one know if its a date or not. Does either of the party actually say: 'lets go on a date?' lol.
Like at the moment, i've met this guy a few times (first to go to a youth group and to the cinema the second time) but how do I know whether he thinks its a 'date' or that we're just going 'as friends' to just chill-out?
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/08/01 10:33
By: THEsodapoprocker
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Although my last relationship ended badly, it started out quite amazingly!-lol I got a message on myspace from an old friend who had moved away asking me to give her cousin who had just com out to her as being bi. I talked to him on the internet a while, and then we exchanged phone numbers. The next night we talked on the phone for 3 hours! The next day, we couldnt stand not really meeting each other so I snuck out of the house and made the hour drive to where he lived. He took me to and old abandonned public pool (i know that sounds creepy!-lol) and we layed at the edge of it and looked up at the stars talking for hours. Then we looked at each other and just knew--We kissed and didnt stop for at least 5 minutes!-lol--He asked me if we could be "together" and after that i snuck out every night. That night was so romantic and (even though like i said-it ended quite badly) i want him back so bad it hurts!
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/08/03 16:05
By: xgayscottishboix
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I suppose from my experience, you want to begin by "seeing someone" of sorts. Getting to know someone is important and being able to connect with them is probably thee most important part. If you are both two different people that clash then it's a nogoer. But generally folk go out on dates, not my kind of thing to be honest... but I like to just casually meet a few times, and thats before even kissing someone really. For me, a lot of getting to know whether the person is right for you is determined in the kiss. If you enjoy it and they do too then there is no reason that you won't do well in a relationship together, and thats you both feel suited.
From there onwards, building the relationship up to a steady point is always a necessity, as in my experience, if you don't they can flounder pretty easily enough. So take your time, and communication is vital before I forget, talk to each other and try and spend a lot of time in the beginning with each other. The rest should, hopefully, just follow suit... Xx-A Subtle Delight-xX
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/08/12 01:44
By: josh_86
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In most cases, dates are awkward. And usually don't lead to relationships, because it's such an odd way to get to know someone.
Relationships usually form from friends and acquaintances, because you get to know someone, without any added pressure.
After you've spent time with someone getting to know them, a relationship usually starts by a mutual agreement to not see anyone else.
Don't put too much pressure on yourself to 'date'. You'll probably find someone where you least expect them, and the relationship will just fall into place.
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/10/28 21:00
By: spiratical555
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Lawlz, you just talk to Hitch or go on one of those sexy telephone sex lines.
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2007/12/28 13:01
By: andyboy08
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it starts when you start doing couple stuff, like kissing and hugging and stuff you just sorta know as well, its hard to put into words. you can definitely tell when its just a date or a proper boyfriend if its just a date then youre just sorta talkin and flirting if its a relationship then the person is actually your boyfriend and you get intimate with them. basically, about 3 dates or more + love = relationship
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2008/03/10 18:28
By: descrete reflection
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yeah i met my boyfriend on here actuallyy... we started talking as he was starting college in england. he was back in toront over the holidays so we decided to go watch a movie and chill. and like we just got along great and just hung out alot afters. then eventually became boyfriends lol. it was really simple but maybe thats just for me
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Re:how does a relationship start?
Date: 2008/04/12 04:03
By: meisinscotland
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modelbehavior wrote: I have never dated before (not evena girl) and when I turn 18 in 6 months I would like to start dating guys. Here is my question, how does a relationship start? I mean, i know it sounds kinda dumb (well, it is dumb!), but how do a series of dates turn into a realtionship? I mean, I know that people date, but not every date turns in to a serious realtionship. But, if you have been dating for a while, how do you take the next step and becomes boyfriends? I know it sounds dumb, but I have no idea about dating whatsoever. I guess what I am trying to say is how do you go abut starting a relationship?
Please, humor my stupidity...
It's hard to explain... it just sorta happens. You'll learn over time when a guy is giving you 'signals' and when they aren't!
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