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Why am i being bullied?
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Date: 2008/02/20 10:14
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By: itsallme2003
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Am i the only one?[b]
Ok, so first off i just wanna tell you, your not the only one that gets bullied, in school, your just the main person that realises your getting bullied. In actual fact most people get bullied in school, and sometimes even later on in life. Some people are even bullied by their so called friends!
[b]Why am i bullied for being gay though?
Im gonna let you in on a secret here guys, and you honestly wont believe me until you grow a bit older and find out the truth about people. People dont bully you because your gay, people bully you because you show the things that they desperately want to show, but cant!
When the adults say ignore them, they are just jealous, they are half right!
It frustrates them that you can be what they want to be, without having to try!
For example, look at celebrities, how easily do we hate them, just because they have the life we dont!
So what can i do about it?
Ok, simple answer here, you dont have to do anything! Your perfect the way you are! The fact is stated above, it is the bullys problem!
If it is getting you down though, Tell someone!!! there are also two things you can do about it.
1) if you are openly gay, you can adopt the, "some people are gay, get over it" motto, and if someone calls you a faggot, or if some one calls you gay, you turn and say to them "so what?" if you show that your proud of who you are, no one can put you down!
And dont forget to tell someone!!
2) If you are not openly why not try and find an older friend that might be, or someone that you can talk to about your true feelings! Someone that you can turn to and say, "you know what, i am gay, but i like being this way" Sometimes the bullying makes you doubt yourself, and all it takes is for you to say to yourself/someone that your happy with who you are!
If you dont feel you can do either of these, then do the mirror technique.
Every morning before school, look into the mirror and say 5 things that are good about yourself! 5 POSITIVE statements, start with things like, I AM good at... or im HAPPY with.... but no maybe statements! I want you to say 5 positive things to yourself, and smile! Then whenever the bullys say something to you, you can just walk away, and say to yourself, you may think that but i KNOW im a good person! I AM fun to be with. People DO like me!
That way no bully can ever really hurt you because you know they are telling lies!
This guide doesnt cover physical abuse but my adivce would be to tell someone!! Always tell someone!! You dont have to suffer alone!!
REMEMBER - SOME PEOPLE ARE GAY! GET OVER IT!!
Stay safe guys xxx
P.S. The picture is of a billboard we have in my town 
Post edited by: itsallme2003, at: 2008/02/20 10:18
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Re:Why am i being bullied?
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Date: 2008/03/10 15:42
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By: HoucK
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Report someone who is being abusive against you... there is a law which means all schools/colleges/unis have to act or you have the right to sue ^_^
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