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when people say "thats so gay"
Date: 2008/02/19 13:30 By: gay and happy Status:  
 
ive been thinking about this for a few days. you know, when someone is in a bad situation or does something stupid, or they find and item in the shop they dont like, and their friend or whatever turns round and says "thats so gay"

like, refuring, obviously, to gayness and bad. this gets on my nerves and i cant stand it.

anyone feel differently or have views?
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Re:when people say "thats so gay"
Date: 2008/02/19 23:12 By: MooYak Status:  
 
I used to care about this, but I don't really let it bother me any more. I point it out and advice a different word when I hear it, but I don't bitch and moan or let it get under my skin.
"Where we have strong emotions, we're liable to fool ourselves." - Carl Sagan

Link to American Psychological Association's page regarding homosexual relations.
http://www.apa.org/releases/gaymarriage_reso.pdf
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Re:when people say "thats so gay"
Date: 2008/02/20 02:38 By: BravoLima Status:  
 
So what. What's shit isn't always feces, is it?

'Gay' has simply become a bit of a broad adjective for many different things. There's no real reason for it to be invalid (besides rampant political correctness) as a colloquial adjective of things that people don't like.

One word can have many different meanings, they are not always linked, and I'm sure people using the term are aware that the 'item in the shop' is not attracted to the other items in the shop of the same gender.
You should always respect one's religious beliefs, however imaginary friends, delusional behaviour, a belief in a two thousand year old folk-lore should be treated by a professional.
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Re:when people say "thats so gay"
Date: 2008/02/26 22:57 By: C_Dude Status:  
 
Meh, most of them don't mean "I think i'll insult homosexuality while expressing my views about this dodgy spoon..." anyway... I mean, my mates do it, and we're as tight knit as a cute lifesaver's speedos on a hot summer day. And they're cool with me being gay and all. Yep, lub lub.

Jesus, even I call things gay.

Meh, the expressions evolved into existence, and it doesn't even denote anything offensive to homosexuality most times it's used so... Not much use being anal about it I figured.
"Keep it simple buds." --Carlooo! ツ
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Re:when people say "thats so gay"
Date: 2008/02/28 10:18 By: Odisey Status:  
 
It is kinda anoying! Especialy when it doesn't make any sence! Like some ppl use tht as a regular comment on WRONG stuff!
But I think it's ok to say tht when you don't mean to insult somebody.
Like when your fav movie is ...I don't know...Grease... yep you can say it - "tht's so gay!" , i know
Lovro
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Re:when people say
Date: 2008/02/29 04:40 By: Poison_Mushroom Status:  
 
I personally think to use thw word 'gay' in that context is really retarded.

Its kicking up a fuss about nothing.
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