Yeah to tell you the truth I really want a little boy, I want to be able to coach his baseball team, teach him how to do all the guy stuff.
The only thing I have a problem with is bullying, and how would it feel to have two dads? Without any mother in your life ever.... I don't know what I would do without my mom. But it is always better then the child being put to death in a foreign country (China isn't fair to their babys!)....
Well thats my two cents on the subject =P
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Re:Thoughts and opinions on gays adopting
Date: 2008/02/16 11:25
By: Italianguy
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I dreamed to have a family all my life... to meet a good guy that loves me, and to grow up one (or 2or 3...the number doesn't matter...) children... But I don't know if this is a good idea: I live in Italy and maybe my country is more mentally restricted than yours but I don't know if I'd doing a good thing for that children. I mean that probably he/she won't have a simple life with 2 fathers... and this especially in particular moments of his/her life probably would become a great problem... so if I had to decide in this moment I wouldn't adopt a children, also if I want a lot, because I'd love him/her too much to put him- /herself in such a big deal...
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Re:Thoughts and opinions on gays adopting
Date: 2008/02/16 12:58
By: MooYak
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Children have to deal with bullying anyway, whether he has two fathers or two mothers or just a blunt nose. He/she will either be bullied or be the bully, it's just the way of life.
I would love to adopt a boy and then devote myself to teaching him everything I can and just preparing him in every way that I wasn't. Would be a great experiment, but I wouldn't want more than one as it would detract from me concentrating all my energy on the one. "Where we have strong emotions, we're liable to fool ourselves." - Carl Sagan
