Hey! I am bisexual...I think. But recently I have been thinking something else. I first thought that I was a lesbian, but then I saw some guys and thought they were hot. So I thought that maybe I was straight...which that may be. I am not that physically attracted to women, expect for their boobs... But I don't care that much if someone is a man or woman-if I liked the person. Now I am thinking that maybe I have a guy personality or something (transgender F to M)? I like to dress up and be all girl-ish, but I have no problem thinking of myself as a guy or girl. I dont know where this is really going, I am kinda hoping for advice about how to deal with all this confusion. I like guys more than girls, but I'm not super-girly and could be a guy. yeah, so any help..comfort or advice or whatever could be appriecated. thanks. --Stephanie
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Re:gender confusion ?
Date: 2008/04/01 13:25
By: titojtd
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First off, I think you meant transsexual, not transgender .
This sounds like an almost textbook example of genderqueer. Look it up sometime and see if that fits you. "Try not. Do or do not, there is no try."
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Re:gender confusion ?
Date: 2008/04/01 20:59
By: closetmonster
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well, from what you've said, it sounds like you are bisexual, virging on straight. now, the gender bit. you said you like dressing up in a girly way, yet you feel like a guy/girl? perhaps you are just a tomboy? or maybe just androgynous? either way, it doesnt sound like you are a transgender/transexual. but hey, you could be! I think perhaps what you should do is have a chat with some transgenders and transsexuals, and maybe that will have clear your head a bit. but this is all part of discovering yourself, mdear! *gives patronising pat on the head* good luck!
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Re:gender confusion ?
Date: 2008/04/01 22:47
By: Kanae
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titojtd wrote: First off, I think you meant transsexual, not transgender .
This sounds like an almost textbook example of genderqueer. Look it up sometime and see if that fits you.
Actually transgender is the all emcompassing term for anyone who does not entirely relate to the gender expectations of their biological sex. So that could mean transsexual, transvestite, queergender... but not androgenous, because they're not on the gender scale. They belong entirely to their own label.
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