I'm 20, bi-curious and recently started a new job. It has a great atmosphere as almost all of my workmates are around my age. There is one boy who i have become quite friendly with, and although he is 17 i feel like i'm falling for him........ Anyway, I got a text from him the Sunday night asking what i was doing and if i fancied going a drive with him for a few hours, which i did and we had a good chat. Most of it was car chat, like most guys!!!
I asked if he wanted to come go-karting on Monday and basically he jumped at the chance, and to be honest he seemed a bit disappointed when i said a few of us where going. That may have been my imagination though....... We went last night and had a great time and he thanked me for asking him to go.
Anytime i'm around him i feel really funny and i'm pretty sure he keeps looking at me, again probably my imagination........
Is there anything i could do to find out if he is straight, bi or whatever???
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Re:New and looking for advice
Date: 2008/03/11 12:04
By: Bannana Split
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Firstly congratulations on your new job. =]
Secondly I'd carry on doing 'mate' stuff for a while.
Hey you might figure it out then without any help.
Or if not lol perhaps when a 'good looking' girl walks past say something and watch for his reaction.
Or you could do the same with a guy and judge.
Then maybe take it a little further.
Have fun!
Good luck.
x Gah. =]
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Re:New and looking for advice
Date: 2008/03/12 01:16
By: tam_08
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I should also have mentioned that he keeps saying things to me like 'you're gay'.
It doesn't bother me at all but he only seems to direct it at me, while the rest of the guys call each other gay and make remarks about each other. It's all in good fun but i want to know if he has any feelings for me.......
I sound obssessed don't i??!!
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Re:New and looking for advice
Date: 2008/03/12 03:56
By: BravoLima
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Yes, you do.
But then we've all been in love, and that's just one step away from addiction.
Give it time, ride it out and see what happens. You should always respect one's religious beliefs, however imaginary friends, delusional behaviour, a belief in a two thousand year old folk-lore should be treated by a professional.
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Re:New and looking for advice
Date: 2008/03/12 11:41
By: tam_08
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The guy seems quite sensitive and is good to talk to. He was working tonight and one of the other part-timers accused him of 'touching him up'. It was all a good laugh but he went bright red He didn't deny anything which i thought was a good sign.....
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Re:New and looking for advice
Date: 2008/03/24 00:24
By: seriouslycant
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This may sound really stupid.. but why not just ask him if he's gay or bi..? better still.. ask him out
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Re:New and looking for advice
Date: 2008/03/29 04:58
By: aldiss
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Well yeah you could just ask him out and risk jepoardising your friendship. or you could sit tight and wait for some actual proof that hes interested.
Ooh! get him drunk lol if there's any feeling there, they'll come flooding out when he's drunk.
Congrats on the job, hope things work out
Good luck & keep smiling xx Good luck & Keep smiling x
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He didn't deny anything which i thought was a good sign..... 
xx 
