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Date: 2007/08/28 10:49
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By: Sundelin2
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i came out to my history teacher, he was ok with it, but at the time i looked up to him and still look up to him asn a brotherly like figure
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/08/28 10:49
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By: Sundelin2
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i came out to my history teacher, he was ok with it, but at the time i looked up to him and still look up to him asn a brotherly like figure
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/08/29 21:15
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By: crdb5066
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the first person i came out to...well it was four people at the same time at a leep over when it was all quiet at 2 am...they were just like "seriously?" and i told em yeh and there completely kewl with it.one of em is bi-curious another is bi-curious and the other is a bit of a homophobe but i dont show my gayness at all so hes kewl with it too.then i told idk about 10 other friends in the past mabey 2 weeks? includeing one 2 days ago =] now just to tell people when school starts on sept. 4th...funn >.> i will never tell my parents till i get a bf by my side OR i move out. i like the moveing out idea best =]
"When Life Gives You Lemons, Clone Them And Make Super Lemons."
http://nopaste.com/p/amGhWLGRH [Some Insight to Life?]
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/08/30 11:56
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By: tomski_92
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The first person I came out to was my best friend Danielle. She was shocked at first because she thought I was as straight as can be. I was walking back from school with her and I just decided I'd had enough of lieing to my best friend so I just brought the conversation around to telling her. I was so nervous but after she was finally convinced I wasn't joking I think i had the best conversation of my life. I felt so free and could talk openly about whatever I liked... we then had a conversation about boys at my school and it was just fun.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/08/31 07:46
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By: willw2k7
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The first person I came out to was my best friend Ricky over MSN. This happend like two days ago. You know for a long t ime I thought I really like him, and I am sure I actually have feelings for him. But he didn't show any signs he liked me when I told him I was gay, so I am just going to give up on that and look elsewhere.
Once he knew, all he did was try and give me advice, and we both still hug an stuff so it hasn't even affected our friendship, luckily. It was from that moment on I sat and thought about been more open about my feelings, which is why I signed-up to here!
I would like to think soon I will at least know what it feels like to be loved, and love back. My sister apparently knows lots of gay/bi guys, so I think once I tell her I stand a good chance of not been alone ^^.
When your gone, the pieces of my heart are missing you
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/03 09:27
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By: stu88
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the first person i came out to was to a friend at college, (little did i know, he was gay aswel!) anyway he was really supportive and even though it was really hard coming out to my other friends, it was really worth it cause now we have a laugh over things, i havnt come out to my family although i nearly did.... last xmas my sister said she and her friend want a gay mate for xmas, i nearly said how about a gay brother? i didnt though i was really scared. im not close with my family anyway just my sister. ah well!
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/03 10:34
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By: pumpkinboy
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I told my best friend, who is also gay. I was so terrified I had to write her a letter instead of saying it, even though she is into gay rights and all. When she read it she looked really shocked for about half a second and then said "That's amazing honey" and gave me a huge hug. It was all OK after that... until it came to telling my parents... 
*Thank you so much Jo, you're the best friend in the whole world*
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/07 00:05
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By: g.i.johazelwoods
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^^that would be me lol^^ and it was one of the best days of my life, has been better & better since. you're the best friend i could wish for sweetheart =) as for my own story, it was my older sister jess; i had been wanting to tell her for months but just never got the courage up, then i'd been left home alone & the puppy episode of "ellen" (the one where she comes out, for those of you who aren't avid followers lol) happened to be on...she came home and i just burst into tears and told her, & she was like "what the hell are you crying for you idiot, you know i don't care" haha (Y) so that was a pretty awesome first person to tell.
(unfortunately no one told me that the next happening in ellen is her first heart break. yay, that was a fun follow up! haha)
i've been really pretty lucky the reactions of all the people i've told (which is everyone except exended family atm), but have had one or two bad experiences also, so i'd be really happy to offer help to anyone who is considering coming out/has and is worried, just message me.
much love, jo xx
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/09 20:47
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By: MemineritisMei
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I have two occasions where i was kinda forced out of the closet. The first was when my older sister, Becca, found my stash of porno, which was gay, so she put two and two together and called me on it. But it wasn't really coming out cause she just sorta dropped it afterwards. The other time i was a little messed up, AKA drunk, and online ( a very deadly combination) and i told a friend who, in turn, told every soul he could. He was also gay so by his reasoning, outing me would make me want to date him, I didn't! Well it's sad cause im gonna have to "come out" once again only, this time, im in a college in the south of Illinois. And southerners do NOT like gays! Im sorta building up a strong friend basis before drop that on all of them.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/13 04:32
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By: lOvE_iT_lIvE
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The first person i cum out to was my mum and then all my m8s
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/13 04:34
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By: lOvE_iT_lIvE
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The first person i cum out to was my mum and then all my m8s
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/13 05:40
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By: Xail
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I first came out to a female friend. Actually, she was a girl I knew for two days through a male friend I had known for about three days. She just flat out asked me.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/14 21:03
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By: TheonenonlyRMD
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I haven't been yet but i got pretty close. One of my close friends was forced out though. Her mom went through her stuff and found these letters to this girl she liked.
"Last night I dreamt I was little again, and I could hear back then...but the silence in my house..was deafening"-Rives
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/14 21:09
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By: TheonenonlyRMD
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at the time? are u not friends anymore?
"Last night I dreamt I was little again, and I could hear back then...but the silence in my house..was deafening"-Rives
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/14 21:12
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By: TheonenonlyRMD
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I actually came out to this girl I liked first. She was cool with it. Then I came out to my best friends but my best best friend was mad b/c i didn't tell her first After that I just started telling random ppl. I haven't told my parents yet b/c they won't take it well. I'm gonna wait til the end of this year to tell them.
G Dizzle wrote:
I was just wondering if you came out to a friend first or a family member? and what it was like?
I personally came out to a friend first.
"Last night I dreamt I was little again, and I could hear back then...but the silence in my house..was deafening"-Rives
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/14 21:16
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By: TheonenonlyRMD
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Yeah I don't plan on officially coming out to anyone else except for my parents maybe....i might wait for them to ask me lol But yeah i'm tired of the stress..if they ask i'll say yes...if they don't they won't kno. but i'm not making much of an effort to hide it anymore
Boku wrote:
I've only told one person explicity, and she was the first person to know - my best friend. With my other friends (and new friends), I don't make an effort to tell them. I just hint or wait until it comes up in conversation.
Much less stressful than having to make a grand announcement or something, hehe.
With my mum, I'm planning something along these lines in the next few weeks.
Me: Mum, do you mind if I go out with some friends tonight and be back late?
Mum: Where are you going?
Me: To G-A-Y probably.
Mum: Aah, 
"Last night I dreamt I was little again, and I could hear back then...but the silence in my house..was deafening"-Rives
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/14 21:19
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By: TheonenonlyRMD
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I didn't get outed but I got pretty close. My dad hacked onto my windows account and saw that I had seen all these lesbian movie and shows and he saw this site. Luckily, my mom tried to make up excuses b/c she in denial. I just sat there  But now I kinda wish they knew b/c it would be easier for me now. I'm tired of trying to covering it up.
Morgan05 wrote:
I was kinda forced out the closet. I wrote a love letter to a boy in my class, and my teacher found it, and told my parents. Yer no, for 'my own good' and all that.
So does that mean technically I came out to that boy first? I mean I never said, listen I'm bi, listen I'm gay. I just said. I love you.
Anyone else get grabbed from the closet kicking and screaming I wonder?
"Last night I dreamt I was little again, and I could hear back then...but the silence in my house..was deafening"-Rives
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/15 08:33
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By: 1337Lauren
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My best friend, who's gay as well.
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Date: 2007/09/16 10:08
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By: leannexox
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i think the first person i told was my uncles boyfriend. We were having a convo about boyfriends and he asked if i had one. When i said no he just went "are you a lesbian" so i told him. Also a few of my friends know. Luckily for me all my friends have been ok with it.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/09/18 03:51
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By: Troy92
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i told my best mate first, as i felt like he really needed to know as we tell each other everything...he was a bit shocked but fine with it....we were on holidays at the time so he couldnt really run but i really only come out to my parents wen my dad got really sick and without my mates help i wouldnt be out to to them now
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