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Date: 2007/06/22 16:47
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By: Bluefire15
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I think that age is just a number. If you are in love with someone, age shouldn't matter, love is love. If you truly love them and they love you then go for it.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/06/23 09:56
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By: sdspainhour
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As a general rule, the age gap makes the biggest impact when you are in your teen years. Once you're eighteen you cannot touch anyone under 18. So that can cause a major problem. You must be careful. Ansd if dated someone older, there is a big difference between, say, an 18 year old and a 24 year old. Once the 20's are reached, it really begins to make less and less of a difference. Yeah....so that's my view. I myself dated a15 year old when I was 17. The day I turned 18, everything changed and things went downhill. If you can find a way to make it work, that's great! But, otherwise.....if 18, I would recommend that you don't date anyone younger.
Trying to prevent heartache,
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/06/23 09:57
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By: sdspainhour
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As a general rule, the age gap makes the biggest impact when you are in your teen years. Once you're eighteen you cannot touch anyone under 18. So that can cause a major problem. You must be careful. And if dated someone older, there is a big difference between, say, an 18 year old and a 24 year old. Once the 20's are reached, it really begins to make less and less of a difference. Yeah....so that's my view. I myself dated a15 year old when I was 17. The day I turned 18, everything changed and things went downhill. If you can find a way to make it work, that's great! But, otherwise.....if 18, I would recommend that you don't date anyone younger.
Trying to prevent heartache,
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/06/23 09:57
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By: sdspainhour
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As a general rule, the age gap makes the biggest impact when you are in your teen years. Once you're eighteen you cannot touch anyone under 18. So that can cause a major problem. You must be careful. And if dated someone older, there is a big difference between, say, an 18 year old and a 24 year old. Once the 20's are reached, it really begins to make less and less of a difference. Yeah....so that's my view. I myself dated a15 year old when I was 17. The day I turned 18, everything changed and things went downhill. If you can find a way to make it work, that's great! But, otherwise.....if 18, I would recommend that you don't date anyone younger.
Trying to prevent heartache,
Stephen
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/06/23 09:57
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By: sdspainhour
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As a general rule, the age gap makes the biggest impact when you are in your teen years. Once you're eighteen you cannot touch anyone under 18. So that can cause a major problem. You must be careful. And if dating someone older, there is a big difference between, say, an 18 year old and a 24 year old. Once the 20's are reached, it really begins to make less and less of a difference. Yeah....so that's my view. I myself dated a15 year old when I was 17. The day I turned 18, everything changed and things went downhill. If you can find a way to make it work, that's great! But, otherwise.....if 18, I would recommend that you don't date anyone younger.
Trying to prevent heartache,
Stephen
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/06/23 09:57
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By: sdspainhour
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As a general rule, the age gap makes the biggest impact when you are in your teen years. Once you're eighteen you cannot touch anyone under 18. So that can cause a major problem. You must be careful. And if dating someone older, there is a big difference between, say, an 18 year old and a 24 year old. Once the 20's are reached, it really begins to make less and less of a difference. Yeah....so that's my view. I myself dated a15 year old when I was 17. The day I turned 18, everything changed and things went downhill. If you can find a way to make it work, that's great! But, otherwise.....if 18, I would recommend that you don't date anyone younger.
Trying to prevent heartache,
Stephen
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/06/27 07:17
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By: henryobrazkov
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I know we should all be like, liberal and open minded but big gaps, especially when one person is under 18 and the over is like, over 24...
creep.
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out.
I mean, theres not much difference between a 15 year old and a 16 year old and if a 15 year old was dating a 20something year old it would be seen as "wrong". So, i personally, find 16 and over 19s wrong.
And really, there is little a young adult and an adultadult really have in common anyway.
Besides, some older guys take advantage. 
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/06/27 14:59
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By: freakofnature
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I totally agree.. Both old & young people should be who they want to be with.. & yes why didn't they ask that question along time ago?
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/06/27 16:56
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By: JoeSchmoe
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Personally, I don't have a problem with age differences that are 2 or 3 years but if their is a 7 or 8 year diffrence or more I think that would be a bit weird.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/06/28 02:25
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By: CosplayPrince
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JoeSchmoe wrote:
Personally, I don't have a problem with age differences that are 2 or 3 years but if their is a 7 or 8 year diffrence or more I think that would be a bit weird.
Thats funny, because one of my friends is 19 and his bf is 46 xDD ove twice his age xD
But they are very much in love so eh.
My opinion is in the teens, level gaps can really break a relationship, due to one becoming 18 before the other, and making it illegal for them to have activity until the youngest turns 18 too, but after that (18) and on it becomes increasingly less important.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/06/28 15:36
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By: breakarobot
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My Aunt and Uncle's age gap is crazy. It's around 20 years.
My friend's 18 and she dates someone who's 22.
I also met a couple at Pride this weekend and one was still in college while the other was around 30 something.
I don't really care about age gaps.
I've never really dated anyone younger than me except once.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/07/06 02:15
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By: x.Skye.x
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in one sense yea i can see why ppl say that yea age is just a number,
its true in one sense but i do actualy reackon that age plays a huuge role in relationships.
being only 15 (nearly 16) i havent actuali had many relationships so i wouldnt properly kno coz most have either been my age or just a slightly bit younger, so that didnt matter to me,
but there was one person who was 21 and i'm 15, and it made a hell of a difference,
theres restrictions depending on age, ie. they may be able to do stuff you cant and it can put a strain on your social life,
like under a certain age you cant go into bars or clubs etc. 
kinda does your head in after a while.
so yea, but then everyone is different, and ppl sees things differntly so ts all down to the ppl i guess.
i think i'll stick to ppl like my age and max bout 2-3 yrs older lol. i think i can handle that ^^
skye <3
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/07/08 16:48
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By: Jebs24
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well, people make a big deal that love isn't limited by race, religion, lifestyle, and orientation... well why not add age to it. It just seems to be a common sense thing and should not be limited by law. Human emotion knows no bounds; therefore the emotion of love should know no bounds.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/07/18 13:34
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By: misdubd
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I dont know i t if i agree to that. I dont think age matters at a certian point.As for dating you can date at 14 if your old enugh to drive in some places why couldnt you date.I like a little age diffrence. Its not a big deal once you get to a certin age.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/07/18 16:38
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By: 3tar
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in my opinion i think age begins to matter less and less the older it gets. For instance someone who is 16 and going out with a 21 year old is not frowned on as much as someone who is 20 going out with a 25 year old. its the same age gap, but not as problematic. If you really are into each other i dont see why it should matter to anyone. its societies problem
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/08/08 03:02
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By: quirky84
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As long as 2 people get on with each other, are on the same frequency, able to talk openly and freely to each other, have a laugh with, fall in love with then the rest of the details become less and less important.
Well, who am I to say....I explored my sexuality when I was 21.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/08/12 01:15
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By: AaronDixon
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I think that as long as you love the person you should be with them, no matter what the age difference. Age is only a number.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationsh
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Date: 2007/08/15 11:54
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By: lancslad
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personally i'd say small age gaps like 2-3 years aren't a problem even in teen years, and besides its more bout love than anything else if two people like each other that much age shouldn't be a barrier. my cousins 16 and is going out with a 20 year old and thats not caused any issues. N i've got mates who are 15 and 16 (i'm 18) and can easily relate to them, so matureity realy isnt that much of an issue either.
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/08/15 16:46
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By: gwsmith22
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this sorta topic could have very differant points and opinions due to race, sexuality, age and personal growth.....
personally i would like a bf who is my age because then we would hopefully be into the same things such as partying nd stuff, however, sey i was with a 20yr old guy they may be more interested in work and they career....
my age diff is probably 17 at my current age... i dont have many reasons why just because an 18 year old just sounds much older, however wen he turns 18 then i would probably be in love with him and age wouldnt make a differance..
anyway, thats my veiw and i may have other ideas but i dnt rele know how to express them properly
anyway bubi xxx
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Re:What are your views over age gaps in relationships
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Date: 2007/08/17 08:57
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By: PBuG
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At the moment, I'm setting myself a personal boundary of within two years of me (so 14-18). Once I'm out of high school I'll probably widen that up gradually. I think as a teenager it's a matter of maturity and experience dictating who is an okay age for you to date.
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