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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/14 02:54
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By: tofuboi
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at jambore (dont ask if u dont know alredy) we were playing truth or dare and my truth was who i liked and i said it was one of the other guys at the camp called nick (all to staiht for me though) so i ges it was i kind of forced out but its not as if i was going to lie
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/15 06:13
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By: natstar
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I first thought that i could be a lesbian when i was 13yrs and confided in my best friend who just happened to be homophobic. It took 15 months of bullying from her before i chose to completely deny who i was i went out with a couple of lads etc. before deciding that i was bi. When i realised the true me i didnt say anything because of the past bullying 15 months later i came out to my senior youth worker and he gave me some advice line numbers etc to help me and give me the confidence to come out properly. My family are the only people who dont know that im bi. Im going to try and wait until after my exams before i tell them but i have a dilema about how to tell them because they are old-fasioned catholics, they are homophobic. So i have one more hurdle to get past but one isnt much.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/17 12:43
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By: danie_girl
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It is funny cause I have always known I was gay, and I just kinda assumed other people did too, I never really thought about coming out, cause to me it didn’t matter what people thought about it. I am a very private person, and I don’t really talk about things like relationships with anyone but the person I am involved with, so I can see how someone would just not see that I was gay. I ‘came out’ when I was 13, coming out as in I actually told someone straight out that I was gay. One day my sister asked me why I didn’t have a boyfriend, and I was kinda shocked that she would ask something like that, because I was gay and I thought she should have known her being my sister and all, and then it just kinda clicked that maybe it wasn’t as obvious to everyone else as it was to me, so I told her, and I was amazed because she had no idea. It is funny how things work out sometimes.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/19 12:08
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By: evildarkone
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It would be everyone ^^
I kinda decided one day to tell everyone, so I did, so know everyone in the world knows ^^
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/19 12:34
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By: MattyMatt
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I wrote it in one of my papers that needed to be handed in to my psychology treacher, because the topic was about sexual orientation, and I really had nothing else to write..lol..He always writes little rhetorical questions next to things that we write, and when he handed back our papers, he wrote that I have a mature attitude, and he asked when did i come out, and how people reacted...
The thing is...I'm not out....lol...
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/21 04:55
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By: casioforever
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I first came out to my (male) friend because we were at a gig and it was us and 15 girls (!) that we were with and he tried to set me up with at least 3 of them so when they all went off to the loo as girls do, i told him. It took like a minuite to get him to understand me tho, a combination of the loud music and his confusion. After that, we became best mates, so it all went well 
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/30 10:55
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By: punkrocker606
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i came out to my crush first,i knew he was gay, and i knew he had a crush on me but he didn't know that i had a crush on him ne ways he flipped and we started dating that night it's been a little over 5 months since then.....
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/05/30 10:59
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By: punkrocker606
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i came out to my crush first,i knew he was gay, and i knew he had a crush on me but he didn't know that i had a crush on him ne ways he flipped and we started dating that night it's been a little over 5 months since then.....
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/03 19:56
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By: hereiam
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I came out to one of my very best friends first, and she was shocked because I had been dating her best friends (a girl) for a while, and just generally shocked too, but she's been great about it... I quickly told other close friends, but some of those close friends felt the need to blab to not-close friends and some of those not-close friends told my entire class. I guess it's not that big of a deal since I've already graduated, but I haven't told my mom and dad yet and it'd be nice to tell them as the primary source... I'm just not ready to yet though. No one I've come out to has had a negative reaction to my face yet, so *shrug*.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/05 16:58
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By: dampazn019
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i came to my friends and they didnt care. they weren't homophobic.
however, this guy that i have crush on is homophotbic, but hes my friend. oh wow i have confusing gay life.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/05 19:34
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By: hot_queer
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I cant renember which of my two BFFE I told first, one’s a boi and ones not, and they always fite over it lol
~im here without u baby::and im cold and alone~
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/07 19:59
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By: devinious
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Told a friend late one night exchanging secrets. Of course it was a girl. Guys are generally not very good to come out to...
-Be the change you want to see in the world-
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/09 02:44
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By: Dagu
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I told ma best mate (a girl) 4 months ago. She took me away from people at a school break and "ordered" me to tell her what was wrong coz i had been down for a while...still the best thing ive ever done
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/09 09:36
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By: NICKnick2007
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Wow, i haven't thought about this in a long time lol. But the first person i came out to was my best friend Kayla Beavers. God, i felt like a weight had been lifted off of my shoulders and i could finally be me around her. A year later i finally came out to my family, but not the way i intended....one of my "friends" decided to back stab me and show my mother my myspace, after that i decided it was time to come out and finally live the truth and not a lie. But if i had not of came out to Kayla i would have never decided to come out....so Thank You Kayla for understanding, I LOVE YOU GIRLIE!!
~Nick~
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/09 12:23
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By: dommyxdinosaurx
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well, i was just sitting in class one day tlking to my best friend naomi. and then i just leaned over and i whispered "i gotta tell u something" and she was like "what" and im all like "dont tell no one i told u ok." and she promised not too and then i said "na, im bi" and like at first she said it was wierd hugging me and then she got used to it.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/09 18:25
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By: TheArtifact
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I first came out to my friend Katie.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/09 21:31
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By: deelishislydark
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I came out to my best friend. She was cool with it and she admitted that she could be bi-curious.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/12 05:49
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By: nemoomennemo
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my best friend.. the wierd thing is that it feels like i havent come out at all because everything is still the same! except i can talk about guys lol but ya im glad she took it well
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/14 08:56
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By: Stanley^
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I just came out this year and I told my close girlfriend first! I can remember it all now. We were going to Tim Hortants afterschool and I just said I'll tell you something after. After we got our food, she's like so what's up? I stalled for a good 30 mins. I couldn't even say it, I had to spell it out. She didn't really care much. I've found that I've gotten closer to my friends as I had told more people. Wish I had come out sooner =P
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2007/06/15 08:02
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By: maxwellxmurders
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My lesbian friend over the internet after a trip to maine in which we stayed together in the same host house. I told her i had a "hidden" myspace that no one could see and we had talked about transness and such all weekend. I figure I had to tell her. She's helped me a lot since then
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