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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/03/13 08:53 By: cyby Status:  
 
Age difference matters less and less, I guess, as you get older.

When I was 15 I wouldn't think about dating a 21 year old. I'm now 23 and I'm with a 29 year old. Our socioeconomic/education/mental and emotional development are a lot more similar now than.. if I was 15 and he was 21.
If a, b are positive integers such that (ab+1)|(a^2+b^2), prove that (a^2+b^2)/(ab+1) is a perfect square.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/03/16 09:21 By: SuperMario Status:  
 
^^ What he said. Just be careful, 'kay huns?
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/03/29 10:06 By: centrestage Status:  
 
i knew when i was about 12... i'm 16 at the moment, and i was seeing a guy 12 years older, so quite frankly, i don't see a problem with that :]
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/03/29 12:21 By: Riohaal Status:  
 
Well technically (in my country at least) that is illegal. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. It just means you should be sure that he is mature enough to make his own decision - otherwise it could be considered rape! As I said it is illegal, but usually people are not prosecuted for underage sex because no one wants to prosecute as it is consentual.
But you would have to make sure that his parents were ok with it and they wouldn't prosecute you! That or make sure they don't find out .
Over and above that, I think age makes no difference. At all, just so long as you are both consenting and mature enough to decide!
I wouldn't worry if I were you though.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/04/03 12:05 By: xjordzx Status:  
 
i think its for everyone to judge themselves. apart from the fact that an age gap in a relationship or whether someone is sexually sound is no1 else's business. as long as u r happy its all roses, right? xxx
jordan
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/04/06 05:07 By: FREE_NEO Status:  
 
lieing about your age is never good. acording to my research it was somthing around 15 after you are mid way through puberty at least that your body whould not be hurt from and that it whould be able to have sex. thats if I rember corectly. My theroy is that the age gap pre adolt for that kind of relationships should be 2 years max but once you tern adolt by legal age you can have that kind of relationship with anyone as long as thay are a consenting adolt. the first time I came I was like 13 and it scard the h*ll outa me. it was of course an acsedent. If you have to lie to your friends about somthing your dooing maby you should reconsiter if you should be dooing that somthing. My rule about sex for me anyway is for adolts only so only masterbation if nessary for teens. good luck!
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/04/15 15:51 By: quirky84 Status:  
 
you're nvr too young for love, just don't throw out the common sense and advice on here to make space for it.

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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/07 19:17 By: Trentoness Status:  
 
i don't think age is really a issue in a realationship, cause until it gets to 20 years apart.... but you will have to confess eventually, befor it comes out by itself...
†Trenton† xxx
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/09 04:18 By: Callum Fraser Status:  
 
The legal age is 16.

I barely knew what sexuality WAS at 13.

GO FIGURE.
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FUCK YOU GYC.

Maybe that will get the profile deleted.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/09 16:26 By: Cute Bi Guy Status:  
 
I've always been a firm believer that age doesn't matter. However, the rest of the world doesn't feel the same, but who cares what they think!? hahaha. But seriously, who can tell you that you can't love someone due to an age difference? And as to when people should start becoming sexually active, I feel that the age is different for everyone. No two people are alike and not everyone is ready to have sex at the same time. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is that you should start having sexual relations when you're ready for them and when you're mature enough to handle them.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/16 00:36 By: a_Palmy_boi Status:  
 
I beleive that as long as both parties are able to make a mature decision about having sex etc then its fine. SO, that obviously means that people under the age of say 12 or 13 shouldnt be having sex, period. They dont understand the repercusions, nor are they able to completely detemine whether it is a smart move (having sex) physically, mentally or emotionally. so, if the older person is just taking the younger for advantage (ie for their youth and immaturity), then it is wrong. Else, its ok
Any interpretation of scripture that hurts people, oppresses people, or destroys people cannot be the right interpretation, no matter how traditional, historical, or exegetically respectable. There can be no debate about the fact that the church’s stand on homosexuality has caused oppression, loneliness, self-hatred, violence, sickness, and suicide for millions of people. If the church wishes to continue with its traditional interpretation it must demonstrate, not just claim, that it is more loving to condemn homosexuality than to affirm homosexuals. Can the church show that same-sex loving relationships damage those involved in them? Can the church give compelling reasons to believe that it would really be better for all lesbians and gay Christians to live alone, without the joy of intimate touch, without hearing the a lover’s voice when they go to sleep or awake? Is it really better for lesbian and gay teenagers to despise themselves and endlessly pray that their very personalities be reconstructed so that they may experience romance like their straight friends? Is it really more loving for the church to continue its worship of “heterosexual fulfillment” (a non-biblical concept, by the way) while consigning thousands of its members to a life of either celibacy or endless psychological manipulations that masquerade as “healing”?
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/21 10:47 By: PowerpopPrince Status:  
 
I think that age gaps arent normaly an issue, when they're relativley small, for some reason it makes more of a difference when you;re younger. I think that 4 years for a 13 year old is slightly on the large side. i mean, i was woried what people would think of me when i went out with a 16 year old [[im 15]]. i think you should be careful, if you turn 18, have an experience then his parents find out, you could be in a hell of alot of trouble. I think that you should keep it on a non-sexual level until it is legal, so im sorry, but if i were you, my boyfriend would have 5 years to wait.
hope i helped
xxoxx
PowerpopPrince_
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/24 17:42 By: kinaholik Status:  
 
Sorry to be completely off topic, but OMG this post has been going for ages. I just logged in for the first time in a while and thought that this topic had been brought up again, only to find to my surprise its the same old post. Thats just plain awesome.
Way to go Morgan (i think it was Morgan, cant be bothered to check) for having such a long successful post!! hahaha (one and a half years nearly i think).
Pardon my ranting. I really am crazy today.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/26 17:42 By: coley2k7 Status:  
 
age dont matter

its all good as long as u sue protection
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/05/29 09:35 By: Fiyero Status:  
 
See.. I'm very different with most of you all on this matter.

I think age matters, but only until you're out of high school.

I mean, there's nothing socially wrong with it at all. If two people who are years apart in age are in love with each other, then, by all means, go for it. The thing is, a friend of mine put something very VERY clearly to me. High school is the time of self-discovery. It's a time to learn about yourself.

Even when high school is done, most people still are confused about who they are as a person. A Freshman is not gonna have the same life experiences and maturity level as a Senior in high school. I mean, yes, the Freshman can be very mature for his age, but there are just those walls that are just very difficult to climb at such a young age. Me and my boyfriend are two years apart in age (me being the younger) and there are already those huge maturity boundaries. I mean, yes, I am rather mature for my age as he says, however, there are just some things that I'm gonna have to learn in time and I thank God for giving him the patience to deal with me .

Once you're out of high school, however, I think most people have discovered a good portion of who they are as a person, therefor, age gaps can be a little more leniant.

When it comes to young sexual encounters, I really don't think it's right until you're age 17 or even 16. The thing is, high school shouldn't be about pressuring yourself to have sex or have a boyfriend/girlfriend. It should be a time to be with your friends, shape your circle of close friends, and squeeze in relationships here and there to learn what you like and don't like in a partner, so that that way by the time you reach college, you know what you want in a life partner.

Sorry for ranting, but that's my view.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/06/17 10:25 By: conniefox Status:  
 
It depends on who you are and where your at . Different ages means, been through different things, doing different things, Intellectually different, so on. That can affect some relationships, even though it wouldn't seem like It all the time, It probably would. If you really like the person, then theres nothing wrong with it, theres nothing wrong with It In the first place - Just things to consider. I'm 15 (16 In November) and I'd only date people a year under me or 2 year above...

Whats the point about lying about your age?
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/06/17 11:48 By: Anorria Status:  
 
Me believe if both people (of differing ages) be honest and caring of eachother, and the relationship NOT be based on sex then it be a natural human emotion. The sexual part will eventually grow out of the emotional ties. Taking advantage, force, manipulation, trickery and/or dishonesty be not acceptable. "Attraction" be uncontrollable human trait - however, "behavior" be totally within yur power (if not inspired by some sort of drugs including alcohol). Age differences promote greater responsabilities - specially for the older and/or more experienced participant. True caring and love be proven everytime the word "no" be respected and not challenged or questioned. As with all relationships - "Trust" be the foundation. Age then becomes irrelivant.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/06/17 12:38 By: conniefox Status:  
 
I quite agree with you!
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/06/23 09:06 By: daveywavey Status:  
 
In my opinion, age is just a number. As long as you both genuinely love each other, and no party is taking advantage in the relationship, then you should carry on with the relationship as normal.

Age is just a number - it's the person inside that counts.
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Re:Too Young?~
Date: 2007/07/01 17:47 By: Joey C. Status:  
 
Age...A number...Maybe for some. For me, I'd like to have someone no more than a year or two older or younger. I guess do what you do but watch out about telling fibs,,,it could come back to haunt you.
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