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Date: 2006/01/31 08:23
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By: Morgan05
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We've heard all the talk on what age we can really decide what sexuality we are. How about what age we should start to pratice what we are?
I have been homosexually active since I was 13. I have a friend who claims to have had his first experience at 6, and yet another who is my age, and has yet to have one. But how young is too young? Did my friend do the right thing at 6? (the experience was of course, with a fellow six year old, not an adult).
My boyfriend is only 13. This is an area of concern to me, as I am 17, and subsequently all my friends, think he is 15 and his friends think I am 15. Should we live that lie like that? Should we never have gone out?
Is age just really a number? If so, why arent we all queing up to date those sweet sixty year olds?
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/01/31 08:59
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By: Pc_Plod
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Hmm, age isn't too serious, the age gap lessons in severity as you age.
I was a bit concerned about ages when I started speaking to someone who was 15 (I am 17) so I looked into the law...the law in England and Wales states that as long as both parties are between the ages of 13 and 18 the law will most likely not prosecute for any sexual offences except rape.
So I suppose 13-14 is about the right age to start, that’s just my opinion, I’ve still done nothing and I’m 17…what do you think?
Andy
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/01/31 21:18
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By: kinaholik
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In the end it's up to each person to decide, i guess. But there is the law i suppose. Here in new zealand its 16 years but its not really enforced unless its a major case, like an adult with underage people.
Pardon my ranting. I really am crazy today. 
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/02/14 05:20
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By: balby_lad
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My m8s dont think your 15, only my cusains do. 
I think there is nothhing wrong with our age gap, uts up to us not others aroundus (aka. Callum n Daniel). If we like each other and are happy then we should not care about the age.
xxxluv u
Rest in peace Jenny, i will always love and think about you, you will always be in my heart xxxxxxxxxxx
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/02/25 15:38
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By: boybitsweb
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13 and 17 seems ok to me if u are both happy...
and thats nothing compared to say the 60 year old playboy guy who dates 20 year olds
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/20 17:30
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By: //Open.me.up_dr
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I don't think age is too important. It can be seen as a bit iffy when the ages are either side of 16~ But i think it's fine.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/21 02:28
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By: eversweet
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Morgan05 wrote:
Is age just really a number? If so, why arent we all queing up to date those sweet sixty year olds?
Because, Mr. Morgan, even if age isn't important, perhaps generation is. Each generation nearly has their own unique culture, and then their subcultures. Age isn't the only thing concerned with 60-year-olds and people our age.
~Megan~
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/21 09:12
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By: kreamy
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eversweet wrote:
Morgan05 wrote:
Is age just really a number? If so, why arent we all queing up to date those sweet sixty year olds?
Because, Mr. Morgan, even if age isn't important, perhaps generation is. Each generation nearly has their own unique culture, and then their subcultures. Age isn't the only thing concerned with 60-year-olds and people our age.
Exactly, impotence is.
My biggest concern is the intellectual and psychological barrier; I usually don't tend to get along with younger people that well past that which is superficial. If it works for you then it's great though  I'm happy for the both of ya!
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/21 13:53
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By: eversweet
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I'm happy for the both of ya!
Hm.
well......
I'm holding my tongue on this one. Morgan can tell you when he's online next. Or you could read his blog.
~Megan~
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/21 15:56
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By: kreamy
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yeesh *tugs collar*
sorry.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/25 18:08
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By: Both_Ways_013
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I don't think they'd do much about the age diffrence but I would've told them just anyway's what ages you are. Like not have it be a secret thing. When birthday's roll around that might be a little hard to explain to everyone not to mention infront of your parents. Especially if they come out with a big blue cake that has 18 written in big buldgy white frosting.
kreamy wrote:
My biggest concern is the intellectual and psychological barrier; I usually don't tend to get along with younger people that well past that which is superficial. If it works for you then it's great though I'm happy for the both of ya!
Yeah the age intellectual and psychological barrier would be waaaaay too difficult for me. I am vastly open minded so it seems like I'm smarter than most adults I meet. And when you actually KNOW you're smarter than the person then you tend to use those smarts to teach or somefin funny like that. (God knows I do) If you're happy then you're happy just do your best to not get caught or something like in a difficult situation. You could tell each friend seperatly about one another so everyone knows but doesn't know that others know. (does that make sense?)
Anyway's what do I know I'm just a 14 year old kid.
One bright day in the middle of the night two dead boys got up to fight. They stood back to back as they faced eachother they pulled out their swords and shot one another. The deaf policeman heard the noise so he came and killed the two dead boys. If you do not believe this lie is true you can ask the blind man he saw it too.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/26 01:11
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By: bababoo
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Its only 4 yrs when your 24 and hes 20 no one will be bothered but it seems to be worse when your young E.G if a 13 yr old went out with a 9 yr old it would be looked down on but my grandparents have 11 yrs between them and no-ones bothered tbh
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/26 11:36
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By: 16/m/uk
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I don't think that the age different is too important...unless it's in the very serious cases like a man and boy. You're fine lol
i had my first gay experience when i was 8 - nothing too serious, it was just curiousity
Matt
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/27 04:11
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By: theoneandonly
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I really believe that it is dependent on the maturity of the two people involved. I've met 13-year-olds that are a heck of a lot mure mature than some 18 year-old. The only thing would be making sure the younger person is in the relationship because he/she has feelings for you and that it isn't just an act of curiousity. If your in the relationship, you should know deep down why your partner is with you.
That's just my two pense worth, if you have a differnet opinion, share it!
Derrick
Derrick!
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/30 01:19
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By: fantacan
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Dont they say that too find out who is too young for you that you half your age and add seven. I dunno why, its just what I heard.
I personally think age does matter for gay teenagers as pickings can be slim. That is not to say that it is ok for a 19 year old to date a 12 year old though. just that three or four years shouldn't really matter.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/05/30 20:30
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By: dee0204
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i think you are meant to half your age and add 7. so im 16 and that would make 15. But to be honest if your happy to be with them and care about what other people think then it really shouldnt matter
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/06/05 13:56
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By: Unknown_101
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Dear Morgan,
there seem to be 4 different issues u r having
The first is the age of ur boyfriend 4 years is a big difference but if your both happy (and ur not taking advantage of the age difference) i say stick with it.
The second is about wether u should tell ur friends, well hiding the fact that his 13 doesn’t look too good on ur part so if they ask tell them but other wise don’t.
The third is ur friend who claims to have had an experience when he was 6 i find that exceedingly hard to believe, there is no set age for sex it is when u believe u r ready.
And the last is wether u should have come out, well yes of corse u should have there’s nothing worse than living a lie, congratulations.
good luck in the future Morgan.
-Unknown_101
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/06/20 13:33
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By: k0r3aNvi3tb0ii
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awww.. i think u guys are soo cute!!.. i think u guys should stya together and u shoudl take extra good care of your bf!!
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/06/22 08:38
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By: Jaggy
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God I did a blog on this age thing twice, this is a horrible issue. I think ultimately it is up to you, but once you make one lie others are needed for support and you can soon get tangled in a web of lies that could hurt you and others around you.
KING JAMES THE GREAT
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2006/06/22 08:45
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By: Jaggy
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as for the young sexual encounters, don't assume too much but I stuffed my hands down a guys shorts when I was 6 or something, I can barely remember it, it's all blurry, and me and this girl, who was 2 years older than me, got caught copying some adults in my backyard around that time as well, funny I assumed I was straight even though I felt a odd feeling in my stomach as I stuffed my hands, with permission, down his pants, I still get that odd feeling when I stuff my hands down guy's pants, with or without permission nowadays
KING JAMES THE GREAT
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