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First person you came out to
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Date: 2005/09/01 02:59
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By: G Dizzle
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I was just wondering if you came out to a friend first or a family member? and what it was like?
I personally came out to a friend first.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2005/09/03 00:24
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By: Trulymauri
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A friend who was a gurl who wanted to go out with me.
The proud to be origanaly me, Mauri C!
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2005/09/03 01:11
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By: sneptacular
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I came out to my mom during a game of cards. I won.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/08 05:21
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By: Rotation
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A friend in the rain outside of a show(one of my other friends was in the band)and he was cool with it,he even let me see his dick.
Post edited by: Rotation, at: 2006/01/08 10:40
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/08 08:46
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By: Morgan05
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I was kinda forced out the closet. I wrote a love letter to a boy in my class, and my teacher found it, and told my parents. Yer no, for 'my own good' and all that.
So does that mean technically I came out to that boy first? I mean I never said, listen I'm bi, listen I'm gay. I just said. I love you.
Anyone else get grabbed from the closet kicking and screaming I wonder?
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/08 17:11
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By: swisscheesesn
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The first person I came out to was my best friend because I felt she needed to know and as well it stopped her from trying to set me up with her friends. I wasn't really forced to come out of the closet but when it came to telling my parents, I was looking for a way to tell them and they kinda provided it. They wanted to know why I didn't have a girlfriend I sat there and didn't say anything and they asked me if I was gay so I told them I was. It was a big relief
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/08 17:21
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By: Kalas
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I came out to my brothers first. They kinda already knew anyway plus we get on great so it didn't change anything.
If I was able to tell them, friends would be no problem 
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/10 22:42
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By: alexmakestrax
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i confided in a (also gay) teacher at school
he then proceeded to drunkenly tell my best friend at a restaurant he was working at
and the news spread like wildfire
oh yeh, this was on xmas eve
hence why i now despise christmas
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/11 00:30
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By: LoRd EmiLiuS
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i told my 2 best friends on monday (they're girls). one of them was a bit shocked at first, but now everything's all right. we're still best friends 
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/11 07:51
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By: Bambie
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I came out to my mum and she was so proud of me for it  at 17 she took me out for my first gay club.
Bambie
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/13 04:03
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By: eversweet
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I told my best friend first, though I'd been perfectly comfortable with it for... well, always. I've never been ashamed or hesitant when it comes to my sexuality.My friend's mother and 'step-mother' (no same sex marriage here yet) have been together for like 8 years, so I knew she'd be fine with it.
~Megan~
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/14 15:34
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By: sam
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first person I came out to was my girlfriend! we had been going out 3 months and she really loved me... now we're best friends
severe depression followed for both of us, and I started asking for help by emailing a suicide prevention center
my parents were the next ones to find out I was gay when they read those emails, they panicked over the suicide part, but it showed that they care, and they don't think being gay is wrong anymore, which is comforting
however I'm not really "out" yet, my friend and I are still pretending to be gf and bf, I'm still depressed, and no one else knows... well I guess college will be different
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/26 09:06
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By: Dracon388
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I came out too, well not exactley, to the guy who well may aswell say sparked my intrest in guys, i sitll love him, he doesnt swing that ways so too speak, but was cool with it, I think until the offical thing he didnt belive me, then I told the person on pure randomness, who is now my boyfriend of... well over 16weeks now, through SMS, he asked me out about 3 days later, turns out he liked me , and then.. well after the 2 week holidays (aus).. turns out someone had read his phone, then the whole school knew (400+ people)... yet my folks still dont know and I want to tell my bro soon, Im jsut building up the courage , but yeah.. I told a few close friends during school after I knew about the rumor, better they hear it off me anyhow... but my complete coming out was... unecpected to say the least
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/01/30 07:16
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By: kinaholik
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First person I told was my best friend, who was a girl. She'd suspected for a while, after seeing my disastrous attempt at a relationship with a girl, so it came as no great shock.
My family still doesn't know and as they are mostly homophobic, I don't intend on telling them soon. I'm really close to my family and I would'nt want anything to break that up.
Pardon my ranting. I really am crazy today.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/02/01 19:21
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By: Boku
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I've only told one person explicity, and she was the first person to know - my best friend. With my other friends (and new friends), I don't make an effort to tell them. I just hint or wait until it comes up in conversation.
Much less stressful than having to make a grand announcement or something, hehe.
With my mum, I'm planning something along these lines in the next few weeks.
Me: Mum, do you mind if I go out with some friends tonight and be back late?
Mum: Where are you going?
Me: To G-A-Y probably.
Mum: Aah,
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/02/06 06:52
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By: chrisd
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I remember my sister knowing like it was only a year ago... which it practically was. Was sort of forced into it as well, she was outside my window and I was inside on the computer checking out...pictures...and then I heard knocking. Scared the willies out of me! She was outside smiling and waving. Adjusted myself and then I went to open my window and she was laughing her head off and she was well cool with it. Phew. I don't remember being so freaked in my life...
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/14 14:46
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By: Auron_ff10
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G Dizzle wrote:
I was just wondering if you came out to a friend first or a family member? and what it was like?
I personally came out to a friend first.
I came out to the first person just yesterday, he wasnt even a close friend but a mate that i guess id grown to trust and i knew he wouldnt take it bad since he was friendly with another gay guy in our form,
anyway he was surprised at first since its been a kinda joke that im gay because i dont have any GF (how right they were) but he just said he wouldnt tell anyone til im ready and left it at that, im gonna see him for the first time since that tomorrow which has got me kinda nervous but oh well what can i do
im seeing about telling some more people soonish, his reaction really gave me the support i needed to start telling everyone ^^
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/19 13:21
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By: Coo_Coo_Kawaii
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The first person I told was my friend. He took it okay, and I told a few more friends after that. I told another friend today and he took it great. I really appreciate my friends for being so supportive.
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/19 23:45
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By: jekon
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I first came out to a girl I had met on a school trip which I went on for 2 days with...she was a sixth form and was really nice, and for some reason I felt comfortable telling her. Turned out she was a lesbian who thought I had fancied her on the trip. 0_0 worst gaydar ever. but she helped me come out to my friends after that and all that.
salt-N-Peppas here, and we're in effect, cooling by day and at night, working up a sweat...
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Re:First person you came out to
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Date: 2006/05/20 04:12
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By: Matt87
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The first person I came out to was my best friend Monica. She kind of dragged it out of me, back in 2004. It was a week before Valentine's and we were talking about our plans. She wanted to set me up with some girl so I had to tell her the truth. her boyfriend was there too. They both took it great, now the whole group I hang out with knows (all girls, minus the aforementioned boyfriend).
The first "straight" guy I came out to after that would prove to be my first long term relationship which ended back in December. I was sure I was going to crap myself. He was Arab & Muslim and I was sure I'd get told off... I was wrong, to say the least.
~ Matt
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