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Date: 2007/07/18 14:28
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By: Karuna
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I have always dated younger guys (Im 19) but I do believe big age gaps or different life stages matter. For instance, I have a year now in college and my exboyfriend was still in highschool, even though he was really mature for his age suddenly I was talking about clubbing and working and he was still talking about what had happened at school with his maths teacher or something.
I have always been aware that dating someone younger usually involves having to deal with some things like his parents knowing or letting him go out, but now as things in my life change I would consider dating someone closer to my own age so we can share more common things.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/08/25 04:59
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By: Switch2015
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i have never had a proper boyfriend, but i had my first sexual experiance at 10, with people my own age then again later that year with someone who was 13. personally i beleive that helped me accept my homosexuality. so there thats hopefully a different perspective on this.
What is mind? Never matter. What is matter? Never mind.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/08/25 07:15
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By: the_crampo
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for me its more a matter of the guys being older than me, ive had sex with a 26yo
but if you mean when is it a good time to start having sex, its the right time when your mature enough to be sensible.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/09/26 10:06
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By: MichaelLefranc
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Well this is a contentious issue, and nobody ever seems to agree on it, i think that as long as both parties are consenting and they both understand and know what they are doing it is ok, all people are different, there are some very mature 13/14 year olds, yet there is some that arent...
my advice to you is dont lie to people about these things, if they are real friends they will accept it.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/09/27 00:12
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By: hot_queer
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well apparently many teens going through this period experiment, both staright and gay, and also apperntly u havent fully decided if ur gay or not until ur 27!!!!
however i think i pretty sure,
also i think the age different doesnt matter unless its with someone under the consent age thing, or if ur under and their over
 so, uh, yeh, LOL...
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/09/27 06:03
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By: KD1987
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if age isnt a issue within your relationship then y should it be a problem although i'd refrain from telling the parents (there generation doesn't like it) also to have ur other half reply to ur post and tell u that there is not a problem i tink the issue is closed, as for the 60 yr olds ewww!
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/09/29 02:24
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By: arcsterminus
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I was just posting somewhere else about this actually. Age gaps are really annoying when you're still young. Most people are attracted to either older or younger guys, I happen to be attracted to younger guys. Not a problem when you're like thirty and think twenty six year olds are hot.
But if you're 18 and like guys 15-18.... it's frustrating ^^
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/09/29 18:30
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By: KawaiiSeanSan
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The one thing that bugs me about age is more the younger the person the more likely a codependent relationship is to form.
I personally would date a 15 year old if and only if they had the maturity of somebody 17 or older and met all of the other requirements that I hold standards for.
Like every single person that I have talked too is 15 or 16 in my area is just really really too clingy for my taste.
But if you are in a relationship and you have 3 or 4 years apart (at a younger age) as long as you are both happy with it. I would say go for it.
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Date: 2007/10/05 10:36
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By: Joshiezombie
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I get really pissed off with the whole age thing anyway. I completely understand if it were a 50 year old and an 11 year old...that's horrible. But you're 17 and he's 13. He knows what he wants, I know I did when I was 13. With the whole 6 year old experience thing...almost all children tend to "play" with each other around those ages, so I'm not really sure that that would be counted as an experience.
If I had a boyfriend that was younger than me (like 13 and I'm 17), then I would ask my friends what they thought about older going with younger just as long as it's counted as "acceptable."
Some 13 year olds act like 20 year olds.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/12/03 17:51
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By: justifythis
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Age only matters in certain cases! You need to be aware of the legal side of this. Right now your relationship is fine because you are under 18. Once you turn 18 then it becomes a legal issue. If the two of you were caught having "relations" then the police would not care how madly in love you are. PEDOPHILE. That is the label you would have branded on you. So just be careful. I don't believe there is anything wrong with your relationship, but being an 18 year old myself I just wouldn't take the risk with someone who is underage! Hope that helps.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/12/16 17:24
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By: cheeto23
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Relationships are one thing, but sex is another.
No 13-14 year old should be having sex with anything. It's my opinion that you need a chest hair or two before you start that...
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/12/25 17:08
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By: JR16
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I personally don't think that age really matters unless like stated above its like an 11 year old and a 50 year old. It all depends on maturirty levels. Which was stated above as well, lol
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2007/12/30 02:59
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By: RSco
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whoever said to halve your age and add seven...so I can't go out with anybody younger than me (I'm 14), but my dad can go out with a 37 year old? Okaaay...
"Be who you are and say what you feel-those who mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind."
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2008/01/03 21:46
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By: Jacob1991
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As your probably well-embarrassed boyfriend pointed out, your relationship is supposed to be based on your own feelings for each other instead of your idea of what people may think of it in spite of your 4-year age difference.
If you need us to confirm the validity of your relationship, it's not your relationship.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2008/01/30 17:16
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By: Steely Dan
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cheeto23 wrote:
No 13-14 year old should be having sex with anything. It's my opinion that you need a chest hair or two before you start that...
I'm 20 and I have no chest hair.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2008/03/05 09:16
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By: xSEAN
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to me, age is just a number.
if you actually have feelings for someone, then that's all that should matter.
last year, i was thirteen, and my boyfriend was seventeen.
and yeah.
idk, it all depends on the maturity.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2008/03/19 12:17
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By: Tinsley
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I had my first gay experience when I was 6 too. Just messing around, and stuff, not like we knew what we were doing.
I was having sex when I was 13, and around that seems like a fine age to me. Not that it is the most important thing in the world or anything.
The age gap really just depends on how y'all feel and how mature y'all are in the situation.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2008/03/29 20:06
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By: betoxx
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well at this moment i am dating an older guy than me, he's 20 , i'm 15. i just think that... when love is really on its powerful side and when love can make everything possible, even those impossible things... then.. nothing matters. not even age not even sex not even.. anything! I'll just try my best to make my boyfriend the happiest man on earth, well of course after me cuz HE makes me the HAPPIEST man on earth i'm like the FIRST he would be like the SECOND one lol =)
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2008/05/07 02:38
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By: black_gold_fish
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fantacan wrote:
Dont they say that too find out who is too young for you that you half your age and add seven. I dunno why, its just what I heard.
I personally think age does matter for gay teenagers as pickings can be slim. That is not to say that it is ok for a 19 year old to date a 12 year old though. just that three or four years shouldn't really matter.
i agree with your 4 years is a suitable gap pushing 5 if ur madly in love.
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Re:Too Young?~
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Date: 2008/05/07 11:31
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By: Dannehkins
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I think any age is acceptable - if it is reasonable of course and by that I mean a 18 year old dating someone who is 7 . If both people understand the situation and the consequences and are mature enough to meet them head on and be sensible then I really see nothing to complain about. Age is just a number as many people have stated, you could very well have a twelve year old who has greater understanding and maturity then a bluddy sixteen year old.
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