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Re:First person you came out to 10 Months, 2 Weeks ago  
The first person that i came out to was my cousin. It was a day after my 16th birthday in 2007. I had told her that i had to talk to her, so when I told her she just looked at me, then said "I know" and just started talking about how she had suspected and that she didnt want to say anything until I was ready to tell. Now we are really close.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 10 Months ago  
About a year and a half ago I came out to my two best friends (both girls) the one was shockd but cool with it, and the other was like "OK, and....?" And on November 15th 2007 I came out on Facebook. It exploded, and by the following Monday I was out to my entire school. My mom later read the note and told me she had suspected it for a while. She said she still loves me and has been cool about it. Now it's just telling the rest of my family. I have no plans for that yet.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 10 Months ago  
I came out to all of mi friends first, kind of at once (wel i had to make an explosive show of it lol) though to be honest since dey were all girls and im not exactly da manliest guy in da world it wasn't dat big of a surprise, i was lyk than god now i can strut!!!
mwah xxxx
 
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Re:First person you came out to 10 Months ago  
i first came out to a group of 3 girls and a guy
on a field at school.
i went up to them and was all "can i have a talk to you..."
we found a little corner and i was all "yeah i like guys"
and one of them said"oh finally! yeah we knew over a year ago"
i was 13 at the time.

and then i told the rest of my friends a few months later, and my mom the same day i told the rest of them.
and she said something along the lines of "well, i always wanted a daugher, i suppose youll do"

not living with my dad, ive never told him as i never speak to him.
and my grandparents think im Bi, so yknow sall fine.
first came out to a group of 3 girls and a guy
on a field at school.
i went up to them and was all "can i have a talk to you..."
we found a little corner and i was all "yeah i like guys"
and one of them said"oh finally! yeah we knew over a year ago"
i was 13 at the time.

and then i told the rest of my friends a few months later, and my mom the same day i told the rest of them.
and she said something along the lines of "well, i always wanted a daugher, i suppose youll do"

not living with my dad, ive never told him as i never speak to him.
and my grandparents think im Bi, so yknow sall fine.
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Re:First person you came out to 9 Months, 4 Weeks ago  
I first came out to my best friend it was easy because she's gay too she said she has always known she told her girlfriend who is ok with it aswell, theyre the only two people i have told but my other friend i think knows due to we all keep talking about it.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 9 Months, 3 Weeks ago  
I told one of my best friends last friday.
She took it great. She gave me a hug and said thats fine.
It makes no difference.
So I then had the confident to tell another mate.
She didn't believe me at first and has been acting strange around, but I'm hoping this will passed.
I havn't told any boys yet but I'm hoping to come out soon.

Am really dreading about telling my folks thou!
 
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Re:First person you came out to 9 Months, 3 Weeks ago  
well people on here and other websites...but for people I actually know..
It was my bestfriend, it went pretty well. She was just like sweet, I have a bi bestfriend! and then I think that she forgot about it.. or something (but she didnt, she just didnt care that much)
 
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Re:First person you came out to 9 Months, 3 Weeks ago  
alright so this is my first post.. anyways i haven't come out to anyone yet but i'm pretty sure they might have an idea. see on my myspace i put orientation as bisexual and no one has said anything.. my nexopia says homosexual as i am lesbian, but i don't have very many people on nexopia that i'm like actually friends with in real life other then one of my friends who's bi but it's never talked about and my other friend Jeremy who is gay but that's about it. see i'm pretty sure my friends have the idea because like i'll have a picture of a girl in my dp like tegan and sara or dani campbell or something and a couple people are like oh do you think she's or they're hot or something and i'm just like "yeah lol " and that's all that's said really... and i'm thinking of coming out as lesbian to my friends soon well my close ones anyways.. like in a couple days hopefully.. see my mom on the other hand i don't know what she's thinking.. i think she might have an idea, a) i only wear guys clothes b) one day i was talking about the gsa at my school and she's like you've been talking about this alot lately, i was like yeah.. and she's like are you gay or something and i'm like no i don't think so.. i get pretty defensive lol (lying obviously) and c) she asked me if i was gay two otehr times.. i was watching this vid on youtube about some guy and he was like dad i'm gay and the dad like beat him up (all a joke) and my mom's like oh are you trying to tell me your gay?...

see i know she doesn't have a problem with it if i was.. at least i hope. i'm just kinda like hmm i think it might be a bit akward afterwards.

so i'm like hiding and deleting the stuff i do on the computer like this website or anything that would show up..

anyways sorry for the long post i just needed to gett it off my chest sorta.
well if you've read this far
any suggestions on if i should come out to my mom and if you think she might know or my friends for that matter

thx.
-aurielle
 
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Re:First person you came out to 9 Months, 3 Weeks ago  
I've sort of come out....i told my sister and my neice, we're very close in age and we're relly good buddies....haha i remember i started crying cuz they were very supportive....then i told my best friend, she was like "shut up, haha i knew it" then she hugged me....she said it she felt like the gurl on SAved...still trying to gather the courage to tell my parents
 
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Re:First person you came out to 9 Months, 3 Weeks ago  
I first came out to Rachel, one of my BFF'S!!!
 
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