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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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[b]i came out to my best friend (jess) first. she wasn't really surprised though because i had been talking with her about it since i first thought i might be, so it was more of a relief when i finally came out and said it. but i guess the people who had no idea that i told first were my parents. i hadnt expected on telling them any time soon, but we got into this argument and my dad was all _ what r u gay? and i was like _well what if i am. they just froze and my mom started crying. my dad just kinda yelled at me to go to my room, and they haven't spoken to me since lol.
it was kinda bad though when the kids at school found out, because of how it happened. my ex-girlfriend found out that i had a crush on my best friend at the time (steve) so she told him and it spread through the school like wildfire because i used to be popular back then and it was big news. he kind of exploded on me and we got in this big fight, but i don't really hang out with any of those people anymore and things have died down alot. i'm just glad i don't have to worry about people finding out anymore.lol
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J_K (User)
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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i told a friends of mine who was out first...and since ive told 2 other people, none in my family.....yet. but they obviously know i can tell but im to worried to tell them its ture 
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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I came out to my sister. She gave a nervous laugh but then told me it was long in coming. Other than that I have come out to my mom and a select few of my friends- however a lot of people suspect me to be gay anyway and I intend them to think no differently.
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t0ny (User)
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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I came out to my sister. She gave a nervous laugh but then told me it was long in coming. Other than that I have come out to my mom and a select few of my friends- however a lot of people suspect me to be gay anyway and I intend them to think no differently.
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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I came out to my oldest friend on a bench in a park. And i've just realised it's a year to the day since i told her! She was really sweet about it. I couldn't actually say it at the time so i wrote it in a text on my phone and gave the phone to her and she just said so?. I texted my best friends about it cos they were on holiday at the time and one of them fell down the stairs  After that i didn't need to tell anyone because it spread round the school like wildfire
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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man i havent come out yet.
i'm going to at the end of august though the first person i'm going to tell is my best friend kristie.i'm going to tell her not to say anything to anybody unless there also gay or bi and im going to tell her never to tell my mother ever!!!
but knowing kristie shes going to wanna know every thing like when i knew i was gay and how did i know and stupid questions like did i do it yet lol
cause thats just what she does but before the questions there will be a very long long silence she will be so stunned it will probaly freak her out at first.
well thats it
*kiss kiss*
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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I first came out to a 'girl'friend in my class, she was supportive and she said that I was "flaming" and i found it halarious... Then as she told people around my school, I seemed to get lower and lower on the "Charts" but as soon as summer came those people (guys) who were making fun of me were actually either supportive or hiting on me... I dont like that cause they all were acting like sex's all they wanted, so i said no to every last one of them... then when the school year started again, there was a sudden "Outting Outburst" at my school, Jocks, skaters, goths, and whom ever else started to tell who they were... which was pretty cool, but now everyone is pretty equal at my school, and i think that is awesome...
O... and one out of every four guys you meet are either BI or GAY...
Proven fact.
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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If I'm remembering correctly, the first person I came out to was one of my best friends who has a slight obsession with gay people (specifically gay boys). I was lucky I told her first, she was totally excited to actually have a gay friend, and was very supportive. Incidentally I happened to have a crush on her at the same time, go figure.
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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I first came out to two of my really close friends. Both of whom are lesbians. They're really cool. Anyway, they didn't seem all that shocked. And so I was like, "Is it really that obvious?"
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Re:First person you came out to 2 Years, 3 Months ago
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Well, first I came out to my friend Sunny, but I'm not sure if it really counted, because it was 'I think I like girls,' in a scared-shitless seventh-grader way. Then, summer of eighth grade I told my friend Suzanne, who was totally cool with it, and my other friend, Sam. That fall (freshman year) I came out to my english class, and since then anyone who asks me will get an honest answer, but I don't advertise it. Oh, and I came out to my parents May of freshman year.
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