Hey I need advice,

I've fallen in love with my best friend James about 3/4 months ago and until new years day I told my other two best friends about it.

I told them via email and sent a link for a video I made for James on bebo. They were pretty shocked.

The isn't half the problem. He has a fiance, Alan isn't a nice person towards him. He manipulates him and always gets his own way. Alan and I have never got on from the day James came back from America. I didn't know James until then any but I did know Alan previously by a youth group we used to go to.

I sent a message to James brother "How do you feel about what Alan did right in front of you two nights ago with Marks EX-Boyfriend?"

What happened was Liam is Marks Ex. Some bitching was going on between them and last thing I heard out of Alan mouth was "You always know what will shut me up".
Liam says "ok then" looking like he's about to pull his cock out and Alan bending down on the floor.

So I secretly want to split them up, but the problem is I love James and I don't want to do that as that would hurt me in the process and I would lose everything.

I really want to show James the video and tell him that I mean everyword of it and say that I love him and Alan isn't right for you, he isn't happy and I know that and he knows that.

Do you think I'm doing the right thing to tell him when I can get him on my own and show the video?