well, in all honesty i've never had a date before but i'd deffinately go for the meal, as its a great time to get to know the other person. as for the cinema, thats only for when you "really" know each other, then who cares what film you're watching cos, lets face it, you aint gonna be concentrating on the film, hey??? but im looking forward to my first date, cos i aim to make it a special time (as it should be!!! anyone up for it???)

OMG, the perfect date, whow, i like being some place where it can be just the two of us, smart convo, sexy or romantic atmosphere, and of course my date should be able to keep up with me with having to say "What?" every 5 seconds when i start being witty, grrrr hate that, you should be smart enough to understand at least the conversation!

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my date should be able to keep up with me with
having to say \"What?\" every 5 seconds when i start being witty

lol haha totally!!

thanx!!!

Somewhere where I, sorry we, feel comfortable. I'm a Pisces so naturally indulge me with nice food, or something arty/cultural, like a delectable restaurant, theatre or art gallery. Or simply in the bedroom (cliche) but light a few candles, shove on something to make you laugh, cry or..both and relax. Oh and some massage oil wouldn't hurt.

omg i'm a pices too, and that sound great

I think it depends on how long you've been dating I guess,

All for the 'go out for a meal' and wouldn't turn it down, but I think its a bit full on for the first date, its puts a bit too much pressure on.

Perfect first date for me would be something chilled out, maybe meet up and go shopping, have coffee etc, something a bit more informal, its easier for the conversation to flow then and you get a bit more of an insight into somebodies true personallity...

Plus if the worst comes to the worst and it aint goin too well there's plenty of easy 'escape' excuses you can use without bein too obvious.

God, I sound like some sleazy serial dater!!

Oh and the clubbin idea is a bit weird, I guess you save that one for the 'one night standers'

wow, thats good, never thought of that, (takes notes)

mmm, i'd have to say my best date was going out for dinner as well, however we followed it up with a long walk on the beach by moonlight, and of course great conversation was constantly happening.