I dont really see the point in them. Why risk getting an STD for some fun with someone youll never see again? Im personaly more for longer, lasting relationships.....though I guess that would explain why I dont have a relationship, nor ever have.

Personally i think 1 nighters r fun, but thats just me. the only problem is im looking 4 sumthing that will last, sum1 i can hold (when we're dun having incredible sex) until we wake up n the morning and then b ready 4 more action. unfortunately my "friend" is not looking 4 a lasting relationship, just good sex.

I dont like one nighters it makes me feel used.

I seem to be agreeing with the majority here-- 1 nite stands are fun but aren't really all i'm looking for cause i quite often feel upset the next day cause i get attached too easily!

I'm not so sure of these 'short-term boyfriends'. Hmmm
You have your one-night-standers ; the convenient [b]f*** buddies[/b] ; the longer-term lovers and this [b]'short-term boyfriend' ...
If a short term boyfriend consists of the quality of a long-termer and yet the expiration date of a f*** buddy then isn't that causing a LOT more emotional damage/hurt to both parties?? Just a thought
Maybe I shouldn't reply to topics that touch a little too close to home.

I agree with you Benny,

What I don't see is the point of one night stands...

Sure I can see that some people enjoy having sex a lot more than others and would feel happy doing it with a random stranger or perhaps would just like to experience it once in their lives....

That said, all I can see it acting as is a brief sexual release that leaves you feeling like a hoe . I don't think I could do it, I would feel so smutty. However, I may be wrong and I may love it!

I suppose it is just something you have to experience

Is the Geoff-meister back? Or is i just..'Geof'
Well anyways nice to see you here again

hmm... i duno, i think their just harmless fun! and, the alleyway could actually be kwite hot in a kinky sorta way! i dont think theirs anything wrong with them, as long as its two consenting ppl who cares? personally, im kwite the selfish person and really am not the sort of person who should be in a relationship, so a one nighter woyuld probably be better for both than an actual relationship!

harmless fun i think! and kinda hot actually!