Alright, so I'm 17 in HS and I like this guy from school that I think is staight, my friends tell me that they are pretty sure he is staight, but, I've liked him for a little more that a year now and I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm scared that he wil reject me. Each time that I try to forget about him and move on, it never works, even when I'm talking to other guys that are actaully interested in me. I think about him every day and I just can't stop.
I've tried talking to him at times but it never really works and I continue to try to talk to him someh[/color]ow.
I've tried talking to him but it usually doesn't work. I get shy around him and I don't know what to say, I just smile.

Any help?<br /><br />Post edited by: M_James, at: 2008/03/01 17:25

I know exactly what your situation is like, I just got out of liking a &quot;straight&quot; guy (that I still think is gay). Mine ended because I found out just how big of a douche he is to begin with.

There is no harm, just don't come out and be like &quot;Will you go out with me.&quot; Just say like &quot;I'm gay and I find you attractive&quot; or something a little less blunt along those lines. Oh, and make sure he's not the type to get all offended by it.

you like a straight guy huh? well its the story of half of the gyc's lives. You'll get over him, we all do.

yeah, i have to agree. we all have things we want, but just cant have. its all part of life. and if you find out hes gay then bonus for you! but in the mean time dont get your hopes up too high hun.

Eric

Sorry, but if he is straight then you probably don't have a chance T-T Sad but true. I liked a str8 guy named Chad for a while, but that was just the problem, he was str8 as hell and has a girlfriend (who I am friends w/, she found the whole situation funny). I got over him, but now the guy I like is not only str8 w/ a girlfriend but is one of my bestfriends &gt;.&lt;

Ahh the straight guy crush... the utimate test/tease for the gay man.
Im sorry if what i say makes me sound like a complete bitch... (well actually im not, but im gunna say it anyway) YOU WILL NEVER HAVE HIM!! Its cruel, its cold, but its life. Trust me, i used to love the captain of the rugby team... meh he got fat lmao. No seriously rough love aside. The sooner you realise he wont ever be yours the better. I cant belive (though i understand) how you turned down all the guys you spoke of who were interested. Here what to do. Find a flaw in your guy (DONT SAY HES PERFECT HE'S NOT!!! ) and focus on that flaw until it repels you from the guy forever. Or just gp out and get laid...either way.