Well I dunno about stereotypical drinks. Mabye Cosmos for fruity men and pints of stout for butch lesbians

. I work in a bar and I havent noticed any particular differences between gay guys/girls drinks and straight ones. I usually drink Surfer's on Acid on my nights out.
1 or 2 shots Malibu
1 or 2 shots Jagermeister
1 small bottle of pineaplle juice.
Serve in a pint glass with ice. Shaking is optional.
Sounds horrible but it tastes beautiful.