So I like/love this guy, from what i know and believe he is straight.
Although... the only reason why i love this guy is before arguments arised with friends... he was a sweet guy,one of the first to be caring,looking out for me, giving hugs *no not the manly hugs, i mean proper!*, tickling me abit too much, playfights
after arguments happend hes become 'different' still have hugs *proper* he justs flirts instead when girls arnt around but when they are he gives me the odd flirting then goes to the girls and give them the flirt instead *girls who are my friends too* and when i go to talk or join in i get 'get off' and stuff which makes me abit upset even the girls agree he gets agressive sometimes!

im pretty much drowned in confusion on weather hes straight or not or curious... i like him too much i dont think hes the effort and i should ignore him but if i should then id probably need advice in getting over it! one thing is hatred doesnt work, it only inhibits love!

soo what do you think of this guy? totally straight (i dont mind), curious? or anything else, and weather hes worth something or not and if not how do i get rid of this 'love' its currently weighing me down! cant think..

thanks! xx wing

oh yeah EDIT: He once said "if i were gay id go out with you"
seriously he gives out too much mix signals its hard to digest it!


Post edited by: applemoto, at: 2008/02/18 14:41<br /><br />Post edited by: applemoto, at: 2008/02/27 16:17

He sounds at least bi. Maybe he is just curious. It kind of sounds like he might be a bit more than curious but is scared of what society would say.

This has happened to me very recently.
It's very posible that he's just curious, if he knows you're gay too. He might feel that he can talk to you about it.

I wouldn't ask him anything - because that may jeoparidse your friendship. I'd merely continue as you are with him and wait to see if he says anything to you about it.

If he doesn't - Then you're just going to have to try your hardest to get over it.
Sometimes life's jut like that sweetheart.

All my love!

x

You're going to come by a lot of these situations throughout high school, and you shouldn't invest too much of your time/effort into them. Chances are he's either straight and just really goofy, or he isn't ready to try anything yet anyway, and he's just looking to you for small fix. If you aren't sure, don't bother with it, especially in school. It'll only frustrate you.