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Should I move on? 1 Year, 1 Month ago  
Well met up with a guy on sunday, and its only been two days but havnt heard from him since he said "going to bed (insert various amount of kisses's and emotions here)" on msn afterwards
I know he's fairly busy with music and dance and school and what not, but he's had time to go on bebo. i thought the whole thing went fairly well, he took my hand while walking, he grabbed me to kiss. I, before this, put my arm around him and we sort of snuggled watching the fireworks. I walked him home, to which i took his hand this time round and we kissed for what felt like a very long time goodnight, and a bunch of groping and caressing on his part.
Its just that I keep thinking, or wishing, he's there, even for stuff we havnt done yet. Like driving, I went to put my hand on his lap- he wasnt there, went to hold his hand when out walking, wasnt there. Woke up in the morning, wasnt there
Gah, I'm so inlove with him, or maybe its just an obsession, I dont know what to do. Ive text him yesterday, but he hasnt replied, and he didnt reply to ones before our "date". i feel like sending a private message on bebo, soemthing like "havnt heard frm you in a while, I suppose thats us then? =ell met up with a guy on sunday, and its only been two days but havnt heard from him since he said "going to bed (insert various amount of kisses's and emotions here)" on msn afterwards
I know he's fairly busy with music and dance and school and what not, but he's had time to go on bebo. i thought the whole thing went fairly well, he took my hand while walking, he grabbed me to kiss. I, before this, put my arm around him and we sort of snuggled watching the fireworks. I walked him home, to which i took his hand this time round and we kissed for what felt like a very long time goodnight, and a bunch of groping and caressing on his part.
Its just that I keep thinking, or wishing, he's there, even for stuff we havnt done yet. Like driving, I went to put my hand on his lap- he wasnt there, went to hold his hand when out walking, wasnt there. Woke up in the morning, wasnt there
Gah, I'm so inlove with him, or maybe its just an obsession, I dont know what to do. Ive text him yesterday, but he hasnt replied, and he didnt reply to ones before our "date". i feel like sending a private message on bebo, soemthing like "havnt heard frm you in a while, I suppose thats us then? =["...but I dont know.

Any advice?
 
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Re:Should I move on? 1 Year, 1 Month ago  
Not sure... Never been good with these things... So I can't really advice you other than that it MAY not be smart to message him like that... He MAY be busy!
 
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Re:Should I move on? 1 Year, 1 Month ago  
cheers, i might give it till like thursday, and then message him the same sort of message as above but add one "or if we're still going want to meet for the cinema friday or sunday?"
Its just I want some clarity, so I know i can start being all flirtacious with poeple again.
 
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Re:Should I move on? 1 Year, 1 Month ago  
I messaged him last night asking if he wanted to meet up, but I doubt I'll hear anything back. So you'll probally have me stroppig about the chat room for a few days.
 
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Re:Should I move on? 1 Year ago  
In this kind of situation the worst thing you could probably do is to over-message the guy, if he IS busy he'll see it as a bit clingy and annoying, i would just try and chill out and wait to see what happens with him; i know it's hard to do but you just have to, and if he doesn't reply, then yperhaps he was just using you that one night, or maybe regrets doing it and doesn't want it to go that far with you two but doesn't know how to tell you.

But it's too soon to go there, best to wait a few days, i know a dancer and they really are busy guys.
 
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