i am dating this boi dat i ave liked for ages and it is really nice wen i am wid him and i am startin to really feel for him.. however recently i ave gotten close to one of my mates and she is AMAZING..
i really lik her and told her (she is gay) she sed she didnt no if she liked me cos she is just focusin on her girlfriend. (da girl is a looong story)
so i am now confused bein bisexual is CONFUSING! help??

Love is a complicated emotion. I'd say that it is possible to love more than one person, being a person that doesn't believe love is a destined or preprogrammed emotion. Love is a feeling you work at.

It's also a many sided feeling. Take a look at your feelings towards these two people. Are both these people receiving ROMANTIC love from you? Or are these emotions more bonding in a familial sense? Maybe you might be INFATUATED with one or both of them. Basically, pause for one long moment and address everything. And then decide who you have more romantic feelings for.

And if all else fails, go with whoever wants to be with you.

Or flip a coin.

It's definately possible to love more than one person at a time. For instance, most people love both their parents, their siblings, etc. Granted, it's a different kind of love, but I think the same rule applies. The problem comes is that I (along with many others) believe that monogamy is the way, and one must be committed to their partner. I suppose if it's going to be a love triangle and everyone involved is fine with it, then no harm done, but it's just not for me!

both of wat u sed is true... i think i am infatutated wid my frend bcos she has helped me alot and has understands everything i ave felt.. wid my boyfrend i fancy him and i no he loves me and shud work on our relationship.. and i also believe in monogamy so i wont hurt him..

both of wat u sed is true... i think i am infatutated wid my frend bcos she has helped me alot and has understands everything i ave felt.. wid my boyfrend i fancy him and i no he loves me and shud work on our relationship.. and i also believe in monogamy so i wont hurt him..

i reckon that love has absolutely no rules and no bounds.
so yeah, it's definately possible to love more than one person i'd say.
anything is possible when it comes to love.
as if your situation... can't say i envy it.
in the end just do what is best for you, but make sure you are honest with everyone involved.
that way, i reckon, you'll save people a lot of hurt.
x.