I have a friend, and for this purpose I shall call her Kerry. [ This might take a while as I want to start from the begining ]
I have been friends with Kerry since I was about 9-10. We met at school. Her and our other friends would come over for sleepovers and we would almost always play truth or dare; and our dares often were sexual stuff, and yes this was when we were about 10-12. But we just did it for a bit of fun. Kerry always seemed up for the dares and she always made them up, I think the two of us enjoyed them the most. And I always liked doing them with her because she was so up for it. Anyway, we havn't played dares like that in a while. But for the last few months I've started to really fancy her and I really want to experiment with her. [Properly not just in games]
I don't know her sexuality, as far as I know she is straight because I havn't been told otherwise, she also thinks I'm straight.
The other day she found out that one of her ex-boyfriends had pulled 2 guys before and she eh.. didn't seem to think it was natural. But I was out with her yesterday and we were talking about it and she said she acted like that because she was kind of surprised by it and because society has a hidden view on homosexuality and it's not always viewd as "acceptable and natural" So after she told me that, I asked her what she thought of girl-on-girl and she said something like she wasn't sure but she wasn't disgusted by it. So that confused me...
I also asked who she fancied, and in a jokey voice she described the person and then said it was me! She does this quite a lot and I'm not sure whether she means it but she can't tell me seriously or if she really is just joking.
I'm not sure what to do, because we are really good friends and telling her I wanted to experiment with her might scare her and ruin our friendI have a friend, and for this purpose I shall call her Kerry. [ This might take a while as I want to start from the begining ]
I have been friends with Kerry since I was about 9-10. We met at school. Her and our other friends would come over for sleepovers and we would almost always play truth or dare; and our dares often were sexual stuff, and yes this was when we were about 10-12. But we just did it for a bit of fun. Kerry always seemed up for the dares and she always made them up, I think the two of us enjoyed them the most. And I always liked doing them with her because she was so up for it. Anyway, we havn't played dares like that in a while. But for the last few months I've started to really fancy her and I really want to experiment with her. [Properly not just in games]
I don't know her sexuality, as far as I know she is straight because I havn't been told otherwise, she also thinks I'm straight.
The other day she found out that one of her ex-boyfriends had pulled 2 guys before and she eh.. didn't seem to think it was natural. But I was out with her yesterday and we were talking about it and she said she acted like that because she was kind of surprised by it and because society has a hidden view on homosexuality and it's not always viewd as "acceptable and natural" So after she told me that, I asked her what she thought of girl-on-girl and she said something like she wasn't sure but she wasn't disgusted by it. So that confused me...
I also asked who she fancied, and in a jokey voice she described the person and then said it was me! She does this quite a lot and I'm not sure whether she means it but she can't tell me seriously or if she really is just joking.
I'm not sure what to do, because we are really good friends and telling her I wanted to experiment with her might scare her and ruin our friendship. So any ways that I could hint or something?
Well in all, if she is your friend even if she is straight I dont think that should bother her. I did the same with my friend ( minus the sexual parts lol, long story) Well anyhow he was gay, and it worked for us.
“Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.”
-Elie Weisel
i think both r u r stil unsure bout how u feel and scared if sumting did happen it wud mess up ur relationship! i ave been in a similar sitituation.. my advise just see if u can gt ne more information and just stay natural wid who u r!!!
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<br /><br />Post edited by: Cjays, at: 2007/04/23 12:51
