Hi,
I know that there have probably been about a million posts like mine, but I want to ask my question anyway. I am wondering if anyone can give me tips on finding guys in my area. I am 17, so gay bars don't work (I'm not into older guys) and the gay-straight alliance in my school is made up of all straight ppl and one bi girl, so that's no good either. I have been on the GYC and similar sites for a while, and still nothing. I am a really outgoing person, so making friends and coming up to ppl and talking to them isn't a problem. The thing is, I want a boyfriend, not just a friend and don't know how to find one. Any advice ?

U're doing all the rite things but now it just needs time. U'll find the guy u're after in 1 of the ways u r lookin but it could be 2morra or it could be in a year.

I wish u the best of luk.

I also think that you are going about the right way... just keep doing things the way you are. Also, I don't know how out you are, but try and be confident about who you are and tell a few people. After a while, that kind of thing spreads, and who knows, maybe one day you'll stike up a nice conversation with a potential boyfriend! The main thing is not to look. Once you start looking, you get frustrated, and then you get depressed. Finding a romantic hookup occurs in the most unexpected places at the most unexpected times. Just keep your humour up, carry on with your normal life, don't freak out, and you're bound to bump into a guy in the end!

(I hope that this advice wasn't too lame, but it's the best I can give!)