i've been in love with one of my best friends forever, but when i came out to him, he confirmed to me he was straight. i was crushed. i still love him altho its just a lost hope and dream.
just recently, i've been in love with another guy. he's a freshman (im' a junior) but he's really hot and i like him a lot. turns out he's already lost his virginity to a girl and he's joining cheerleading so he can get some more.
why do we always fall for the straight ones?

I don't know why but I don't fall for straight guys very often. I do seem to fall for guys I can't have all the time though

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I don't know why but I don't fall for straight guys very often. I do seem to fall for guys I can't have all the time though

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Impossible to tell... I am not sure though that the guys I have fallen for are all straight. Nevertheless... none of them ever had eyes for me. I was just a friend, or just someone they know. I've also heard girls complaining that "why are all hot guys gay?". This is probably because, in our unconcience, we wish for something we cannot have, or just because many of us are unlucky in love. I for one feel that way.

-Mihai

Funny enough, a lot of my friends (girls that is) are complaining that they keep falling for the gay guys! lol

I suppose its the personality that attracts us to the person and women tend to like more caring men (which of course are often gay) and gay men dont particulary like "girly men" so tend to fall for straight guys. (if that made sense to you )

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I don't know why but I don't fall for straight guys very often. I do seem to fall for guys I can't have all the time though

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make that three......

The biggest crush ive ever had, and still have is on a "straight" guy! but im convinced he wants something, just doesnt want to say!

I do fall for straight guys though, i guess my fantasy is to have a straight guy!

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The biggest crush ive ever had, and still have is on a "straight" guy! but im convinced he wants something, just doesnt want to say!

I do fall for straight guys though, i guess my fantasy is to have a straight guy!

Same. I KNOW my best friend's gay. The way he acts sometimes... maybe he's just insecure, cuz i told him i was gay and he seemed way too happy for someone who's straight, but didn't say anything (maybe someday).

And I also fall for tons of straight guys.

i fall for straigh guys , if i were u i would try to fall out of it as quick as possible to avoide letin ure heart lead u told places were it cannot survive

im speaking frm experience here

im sort of in the same situation...
how did coming out to him affect your friendship?