I wouldn't pay for it. I believe sex should just happen in a relationship when you really love eachother. So no paying for his sex, and I wouldnt pay either to just get to know him and perhaps more might come out of it, I dont think that will work with such a person.
Too bad he is hot, there must be boys out there who are hot and are not an ass by asking to be paid, but just by loving and caring for eachother

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