mines pretty stupid,but hey why not.one day one the bus home from school,this one girl was really bugging me about if i had a gf and what not.one thing led to another and i kinda shouted that i was gay.
so the whole bus found out. and the driver even tried to convince me to be straight.as you can imagine i tried really hard not to laugh in her face.see,told you,stupid story.but its better than how my parents found out,they just checked my email and found something from here.

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mines pretty stupid,but hey why not.one day one the bus home from school,this one girl was really bugging me about if i had a gf and what not.one thing led to another and i kinda shouted that i was gay.
so the whole bus found out. and the driver even tried to convince me to be straight.as you can imagine i tried really hard not to laugh in her face.see,told you,stupid story.but its better than how my parents found out,they just checked my email and found something from here.

Your not stupid, the bus driver for trying to make you straight is stupid?

My coming out story is incredibly none
dramatic, i had called my mom and dad
to come with me - because i go see a therapist every tues and thurs- because i just have to gab about my life and get stuff off my chest to someone who isnt involved with my life and someone who can just take my side - im not like nuts! and my therapist has known i am gay since the first day i was going right. o yea- and he's
super flamboyant and la de dah. so i finally just was like i have something really big to tell both of you- i love you guys and i hope this doesn't change anything- my mom later told me she thought i had 1) gotten a sex change 2) about to move to another country 3) was a drug addict and wanted to live on the street- my mom has a wicked sense of humor. I was just like ... ugh.. im gay and i have been for a long time.Its not a phase.. Neither of them looked like i just told them i was gay... i was like um.. im GAY! and my mom was like so whats the big thing you had to tell us? I was like? Did u guys just black out or something? Im gay!!! my mom was like o well thats not really news.. and my dad was like uh.. we have meet you before .. we know your gay. I was like o.. well then.. good session. It didn't even phase them, they really didn't care. My mom said her love is unconditional and she wants to take me to pride .blah- i wish i could have had one of those big dramatic coming outs but my parents know me pretty well so there is no shocking them.

yeah but has anyone come in?

When I first came out, I came out to my best friend, and she was ok with it (she freaked out, typical girl reaction, haha). I put it up on my facebook, and little by little my inner circle of friends found out. I wasn't about to broadcast it to the entire school, but if someone asked, I'd tell them, and pretty much everyone who knows in school is cool with it. All this was around August last year. Now, I came out to my mom in february this year. She was (and to my knowledge, still is) in denial. She told me it was a choice I could make, she told me to, basically, "go straight". She was about to hire a psychologist to make me think things over, too. She brought up all these religious points and whatnot, which, in my opinion was complete BS. I told her that I was completely sure I'm bi, but she didn't accept it. She hasn't brought it up anymore ever since then, which could mean she might've come to terms with it. Either way, if I ever go out with a guy, I don't think she'd be too happy.

hmm,...
mines more of a "i havent and not going to come out"
dont judge me but,
i have my reasons, its not coz im scared...well actually it is coz im scared but i have very good reason to be.
strap your selves in for a melodramatic ride.

my rents are the most homophobiest rents on the planet.
and ive always thought i was a big different from my older bro and wondered why my dad treated me differently, telling me to stop talking to women (thinking talking to men would turn me straight [i dont know how that works])
But basically, my mum thinks im prefectly straight and just a "bleeding heart for gay right" LOL, idiots.
anyway, so in short i thought id get on here and whinge a little coz im feeling pretty down right now,
so probably writing down about how much i hate it probably wont help at all ^^,
meh this is more of a rant than a story, well i should probably tell u why i dont wanna tell em.
ill quote my dad,

if any of my kids were homos id rather they wouldnt tell me b4 i die so i can die thinking theyre all normal


gay ppl are corruptting children, they should be kept out of the public eye

its not natural

they should be locked up in jail

and the list goes on,
and because all my mates know my brother and because my brother wouyld tell my dad, i dont think i trust any of em enuff, i rly should but i dont know, its hard.
i told one mate, she wouldnt tell coz shes bi herself,
she doesnt beleive me,
she had to watch me kiss a boy before she beleived me.
the rest of the school thinks a im a homophobe wtf?
meh,
idk where my story is going but i think ill just move to another country and text my rents from there
lol

woah, and I thought MY parents were homophobes...that sucks big time, man!
I was in that situation, and I guess still am...to an extent. Well, before coming out I was afraid my parents would find out through my friends...but they didn't, cuz my friends are all supportive. But I do have a few friends at school who know my parents very well. I havent explicitly told THEM that I'm bi, but I dont want to, in case they tell my 'rents, or somehow it gets to them...
but yeah, I sympathise with you, homophobic parents suck (although yours seem to be out there on the scale...wow)
If you wanna talk, you can message me if you want. I've been told I'm good at giving advice

Erm I told my cousins. they were fine, about 1 yr later i told a friend, they took it well. then i started telling people coz i couldnt give a crap about wat anyone wud think. then by monday 2nd period in skool everyone knew. Then My Dad read my bebo and called my mum. soooo lol very complacated.

I told my parents that I am gay two months ago but it was kind of forced out. They seemed to be very accepting of me but now they don't even talk about it. They act like I like girls so I just have to let it play it until I graduate from High School.