Ok...Im 14...And I Need To Know Before I Start Posting...Can I Be Gay At 14 ...Or Am I Just Broken ...I Mean The Gay People I Have Met Have All Been Like 17 And 18 ...I Mean I Am Definatley Sure I Like Guys And I Do NOT Like Girls ...Well I Like Them As Friends But Nothing More ...I Have Told 2 Of My Bestfriends (Girls) And They Told My Girlfriend! .....I was Pissed But I Got Over It ...They all Are Nice And Calm And Supporting ...Also I Need To Know ...How Or Should I Come Out? P.s Don't Forget The main Question ...Can I Be Gay At 14? If You Have Any Comments Or Answers, Please Post Them.

hey, we spoke about this earlier

and yes, people can be gay at any age, as you long as you know it's genuine, and it's not just a phase
but yes, it's definitly possible, and if you really dont feel atracted towards females, then yes, your either Asexual (however your atracted to men) or gay.
bit blunt, but thats how it is

and coming out, well coming out to close friends is the first thing to do in my opinion, and your parents, well, we tallked about the lil stories earlier ( ) but it's whenever the time is right
and of course it'll be scary, but it's better to let it out at the right time, then have them figure it out for themselves

but it's whenever the time is right

well i hope the above helped

just gimme a yell if theres anything else, feel free to send me a message

Dan x

Title case for the win!

Yes, you can be gay at 14. No you aren't broken. [Presuming you're in one piece and not in bits on the floor] Things will become clearer as you get older. I came out as gay just over a year ago, after having known deep down for years. Hell I used to have an account here but that's a longer story. Well, anyway, I came out gay, but now I feel slightly more bisexual. In fact my profile says bicurious which suits me. I was opposed to the idea of bisexuality but meh, whatever works. I've not brushed aside the idea of being asexual, either.

You can figure out your sexuality at almost any point, if you feel that you aren't attracted to girls at all then chances are you are gay. As far as coming out you need to figure out when would be good for you. Everyone has a way that they can do it and as it's different for everyone I can't say if you should or how to. If you take a look in the coming out forums you might get some ideas.

Thanks For Your Support Guys....I Feel A Little More Reasured That I'm Gay...Not That Thats The Best Thing...But I Really Do Like Guys...im 100% Sure anyway thanks.