2 absolutely killed me.

Anyway, my advice would be: DO NOT come out to a parent first unless you're absolutely sure that they'd accept it. Most parents go through this five-step stage before they finally accept your homosexuality/bisexuality. Now my mom was very accepting immediately (thank God), but I still came out to a friend first.

it's all very well saying don't come out when drunk.
but try remembering that when drunk lol

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it's all very well saying don't come out when drunk.
but try remembering that when drunk lol:P

Uh oh... what did you do? I want details.

kewl tips, thanks

Confession!...I've done 2 and 8 HAHA....2 I was driving to wasn't too bad, and he totaly accepted...lol..and 8 was drunk and opened my mouth...lol...mostly all my friends there are gay themselves so it worked out....and the ones who are not are cool with it too...lol...But for the rest i shall keep im mind, especially when i tell my rents. If i even tell them...lol...i'll prolly just say goin to the movies with my GF(If i have one)...lol...that would be the way to do it. HAHA

You forgot one. The first person you come out to, have it be someone you know will support you (for real) and do it in person. You will probably need/want a hug. Overall, though, very good tips.

these are great tips. i'll propably use them in the near future (possibly in the next couple of weeks).
this is propably the most obvious one to say but i'll say it anyways.
28) the more people you tell the easier it'll get. start off slow with a couple of friends knowing & in a year you'll propably have worked up to telling the parents.
29) never come out to parents first. they tend to have to get over it, takes a hell of a long time. my parents only just got over it themselves. but they're cool wiv it now

Thats really good... but might also wanna add not to be within arms distance of sum ppl... a black eye ususally isnt hot

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21. Always have an escape plan. You may not need it, but if you do, you won't be surprised. Have a place to crash for the night, and money you can get to in case a worse case scenario does occur.

this 1 is very true!!!!!!
my parents made me live at my aiuts 4 almost a year then sent me to military school!!!!

OMG! you poor thing

you survived it there though? lol i am way to flamboyant to go to military school... lol

lol, i failed number two. i came out to my dad in the car on the way home from school xD thankfully he didn't crash the car but i wanted to tell him there to make sure he wouldn't...escape...and neither would i chicken out either..