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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months, 3 Weeks ago  
It was at my cousins 18th.

We were down the back talking. Just me and her and it was really personal, we'd both been going through stuff lately and it was good for both of us to talk. {{We'd been drinking a fair bit so it was easier to tell secrets }} She was telling me about what happened with her and her ex, and some really horrifying family secrets that I now sometimes wish II didn't know.

So since she was being really honest with me I decided to tell her I have a crush on a guy and she was really supportive. I know I can trust her now and it definately feels like we've become closer

<3 Daisy.

edit: And now I think my mum might know because she might have went through my e-mails which had a few from GYC. She would be fine with it but i'm just now sure I want everybody to know yet.<br /><br />Post edited by: Lazy, at: 2007/12/19 02:20
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months, 2 Weeks ago  
well the first people i came out to was my parents. It was in the middle of an argument when everyone was i guess you can say getting things off their chest. I think it was the hard way to do it but hey at least i told them.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months, 2 Weeks ago  
I actually came out to 3 people at first
They took it reeli well especially as i had a crush on one =P
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months ago  
This is gonna sound dumb but the first person I came out to was my ex bf (bf at the time). I hadn't really thought about my sexuality before. It just sort of suddenly occured to me that I was really happy with guys and didn't want to be with a girl. Suddenly I just blurted out to him &quot;I'm gay&quot;

You should have seen his expression. He was like wtf of course your gay.

I came out to my mom after that and she was pretty cool about it.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months ago  
I came out to my best friend (female) this morning.

I tried for about an hour last night telling her I wanted to meet up with her to tell her something very important. She said she couldn't because she had projects she had to do, and asked me just to say it over MSN. I told her it was more of a face to face thing. Besides, I could always have told on Monday when school starts again. She had asked me if it was bad, I told her it was a happy thing.

The next morning, I messaged her and asked her if she really couldn't make time for a meeting. She replied that there was no way. So, after a moments hesitation I hit enter for the message &quot;I'm gay.&quot; I swear time stood still and she didn't reply for a while. Finnaly she sent &quot;really&quot; and I replied yes. She asked me how long I knew and who I liked. She then said it really is more of a face to face thing. I had never had my hands shaking so much.

I was so happy to tell her, but I am still a little shaken by it. She said other people have come out to her before, and I was so tempted to ask her who they were. I didn't, mainly because I wouldn't want her telling someone without my permission, and I didn't want to tempt her.

I have never been so happy. And I have no idea how to tell my parents.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months ago  
I came out to my best friend Miranda first well me ex bf called her and told her I was bi just cos he became an asshole and she told me she was bi too and then, after a few months, I finally realized I don't really like girls at all, so I told her that I'm fully gay, I think cos girls are kinda a turn off for me lol. Then I found out my whole group of best friends are bi lol. I was really shocked <br /><br />Post edited by: dangreen, at: 2008/01/05 05:06
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months ago  
it wasn't on purpose but i was in this class
,called keystone, and it slipped to this girl that
i hardly even knew. someone else also heard and the
news spread like wild fire.
but now me and the girl are best friends.
<br /><br />Post edited by: xxkodi, at: 2008/01/04 07:04
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months ago  
I'm not very open about myself but the first person I told was actually my girlfriend, and really she was the last i had, right now i am trying to work in a different way. But it was cool cause she came out and told me she was bi also.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months ago  
The first person I came out to was my friend Tyler. We were at a small group meeting for my church and we were at his house. we would always play around by getting all over each other during the meetings =). One time after the group I was sitting on his lap and he said: &quot;What if i told you I was Bi?&quot; And then i was like: &quot;Back room. Now.&quot; So we went back there and he came out to me. Then I told him that I was also Bi. I was glad because i was planning to tell him anyway, and that made things easier.
 
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Re:First person you came out to 8 Months ago  
the first person i came out to was my best friend kyle. i was too scared to do it in person, so i wrote him a message on myspace. i shouldn't have been scared though cuz he's gay. lol. from there i've told like 5 people including my mom, dad, and one of my brothers. they were all amazing about it!!
 
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